First off, I've been banging girls like crazy lately. Just one after the other.

So I basically meet an HB10 at the mall with 3 of her girlfriends. I escalate like crazy on her she was shy as hell and I got her number, kissed her on the cheek. She was like, "I don't know what to say! bla bla" Anyways everyone was laughing and good time. I called her up later, she didn't respond. Then she called me but I was busy so we texted a bit. She was really excited. So today I called her:

Me: Hey I want to see you this week, what day is good for you?
Her: I don't know..I'm working all the time.

So I try to set a date and she seemed pretty excited but then she said, "We should talk first before we go out. I don't feel comfortable, you know what I mean?"

Me: I understand but that's exactly why I want to see you.
Her: What if we hate each other?
Me: If we hate each other then we hate each other. We won't ever see each other again.
Her: It's just that one of my friends got a bad vibe from you. (probably because she was jealous or the common cock-block trying to protect or too much of a bad boy)
Me: Oh ok.
Her: Hey I got to go, let's talk more! Text me.

In the meantime I'm on campus walking around getting numbers and running to to girls hitting on them 2 hours later I texted her:

I can't get to know you unless I see you. I find you...very attractive. Pleasure meeting you Karrina.

No response for 3 hours so far.

But yeah, I pondered over this decision. In the end I just thought I'm on my own terms and if you think about it, you just cannot feel attraction for a girl over text or phone. You have to SEE her, you have to be in her space to feel if there is attraction. It makes no sense, words just don't matter that much in "The non-existant game".

Or if a girl says, "We must wait x amount of days until we have sex, etc." I don't want to be trained like a dog. I just don't want to be that guy who played by her rules instead and in the end the girl ended up rejecting him, crushing his hopes. It just becomes two people who messed it up and all of a sudden made it awkward by forcing sex almost as if it were something you PLAN to do.

So what do you think in situations like these or how I handled it?

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You are right, You NEVER play by a girls rules. You have your own game to play. If she makes you wait for sex, w/o pressuring her, just move on. If she really craves sex from you, she will come to you. Just move on, and never call that bitch again, unless she calls you and wants to meet up.

The subtle mistake your making with this chic is that she's very shy,so you might have to give it a bit for her to get comfortable to meet.She's not gonna want to meet up since you haven't established any comfort with you.You're rushing for the meet up way too soon.Give it a day or 2 to talk about mundane BS,to the point that she isn't uncomfortable to meet up.Then suggest meet.With such shy girls,this is the route you might have to go.

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Be persistant and you're right, playing by her rules wont win you any favors, fuck her rules they are there to be broken. She says text, you call and if she doesn't answer wait a few days then call her again, keep doing this till you get her on the phone then organize a meet up.

That's how I got my current girlfriend and no guy would think she is less than a 10, none of my girls have been.

10's expect guys to be intimidated by them and they are generally used to getting their way, so when you show them that you're not going to be ordered around like some hopeless beta you turn the tables and she is playing your game, not the other way around.

Ask her, 'who's instincts do you trust more, your own or your friends?' and just assume attraction.

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Ask her "Ok, obviously this isn't getting anywhere via text, so YOU tell me where you'd feel most comfortable meeting me?"

This shit isn't going anywhere and as time goes by it'll simply fade off into obscurity. Persist, BUT do so in a way that's accommodating to her so she feels less intimidated/uncomfortable. I know some of the dating virgins will go "BUT THATS WHAT YOU DONT WANT TO DO, MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHE'S THE PRIZE!"

It's not, its actually showing you have respect for her level of discomfort and you are empowering her to come up with a place to meet. I'd keep the pressure on but don't be a creepo about it.

Ya, so says the guy who hasn't a single photo to validate his claim. Most guys will claim they've only dated 10s, when in reality their idea of a 10 maybe another guy's 6 or 5...entirely subjective.

Also, this isn't about being "alpha" or "beta", but rather being respectful of her potential fear of this guy which is entirely legitimate given the circumstances to their meeting. Untwist your brain from all the PUA rubbish you've read.

Looks like Papichulo has created another account... LOL someone put up his video again that shit was fucking hilarious!

What does Papichulo, aesino and a bucket of shit have in common...?

NOTHING they are all the same guy!!

Nice try buddy...

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I like what you did, she wants to waste your time at the moment, and you don't want to waste time, so you are not attached to her,

if you are really interested in her, just stay persistent without being attached to her, or an outcome with her, she will eventually cave if she likes you and if it is enough, she will sneak out to hang with you, without her friends approval

but if you don't want to put in the work and end up with nothing (because it is quite possible), then might as well just let it be and look for more girls that meet your standard

just be careful if you remain persistent, she might try to meet up with you and bring her friends, it's not that big of a deal, but you can be assured the friend will cockblock, and at the end of the night let her know what she thinks of you