I think she will be the one to mention about her night out. when she does... it MIGHT be a shit test to see how you react.

If she mentions her clubbing night, do NOT ask her things like ' did guys hit on you ' ? OMG DON'T.

I used to do that before and it's so damn needy.

When she starts talking like ' well... some i talked to some guys and the seemed nice ', i would respond like : ' that's nice ! you're in progress ! '

she will switch subject

I definately won't ask her that. :D I promise.

I can tell for a mile off that that would be a needy thing to ask.

Ohh and she's out right now...

The football's on which gives me something to do.

have fun !

I'm trying. :)

I still have butterflies for some reason.
Wow I really need to pull myself together. :oops:

dude, no worries. really.

she even asked you to come with her to the club ! she has NONE intensions to do something you don't like.

And you don't want to be there right now... if you would,you would be talking about nail polish, make up and other boring woman talk.

someday there will be an evening, you will be with her in a club, together with HER girlfriends... you know what ? she should be anxious her girlfriends might gonna like you ! you're into PUA !!!!!

think about it.

watch the game, have a beer ( good butterfly killer). enjoy.

Haha good point!

At the end of the day, I'm the one into PUA.

I'm the one who started working on becoming a more desireable, more attractive boyfriend. I'm the one who doesn't have to worry.

Ahh cheers Givemethat. You're a great support. :)

300 dollar

I would if I could make cause it honestly means a lot. :)

naaaah...

this one is on me haha.

someday i might need you're help because i'm still learning too !! every fucking day !

Me too man!!

I really love this PUA thing. It's helped me out so much.

I stumbled across all this 'PUA hate' bs. Which was funny because I know first hand that the techniques improve a guy's life, dating and relationships.

But yeah, I just wanna tell every AFC/Single guy I know about it.
I've mentioned it to my bro but he just doesn't care...

Oh well, he's in love with his xbox. :L

I got into PUA style because one of my friends told me he is in it for years now, without me knowing it.

So i told him about my relationship and it was going terribly wrong. He gave me advise for months... every single step i did, every texting, every single move i did on his advice... it all worked.

i tell him like... now this and this and about her reactions. and he like you do this and this and this and she will do that and that. He could tell me every single movement she would do, before she even did it. Always think 2 steps ahead about what she will do.

Now she is so predictable for me. I now know how she will react on things i do.

But offcourse i can not keep on bothering my friend with my relationship stuff all the time so i registered here. i will always have questions and i'm learning every day, because... WOMAN.

That's great man, that's the position I hope to be in.

I want to know how her brain works so things will be better for both of us. :)

Back to the whole friends thing, if she DID go against her friends' wisdom, it will end your relationship, sure, but it will haunt her friendships with them.

My little brother got cheated on years ago, and to this day, her friends will hang out with US. They tell us the ex-girlfriend hates it, but they do it anyway.

Because if they allow her to slip, they are almost as guilty as she is, you see? It reflects their character as well.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Don't stress about it man! It's a powerful thing to be able to let your girl go out with her friends without coming across all needy and anxious! She's bound to of dated guys who got really controlling and beta in these situations so this is one of those moments that separates the men from the boys (the alphas from the betas).

Everyone has their nervous moments though, it's natural as you like the girl.

The girl I'm seeing is an ultra bitch on nights out! I've seen her decimate guys that approach her! Makes me actually feel bad for them as I would not want to be in their shoes!