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Body language is by far one of the biggest demons in courtship, it lets a woman know a lot about your desirability, confidence and swagger usually mean sexual activity. A woman is attracted to sexually active men because they subconsciously have the ability to continue on their genes.

How we move and our masculinity give clues to our youth and even where we are on the social ladder. Both are very important when it comes to being attractive to women.

I'd highly recommend researching about what you should do body language wise and then adding in so much more. You need to gain good habits and one of those good habits is great body language, since we can only focus on one thing at a time I'd highly recommend everywhere and every day to focus on keeping wide shoulders, head up, wide stance(even while sitting), some arm movement emphasizing the shoulder for masculinity, and confident smooth movements. I can go over it a bit more if you'd like.

After your body language becomes natural(unconscious competence), you will begin to naturally gain more attention. Overtures will be everywhere. Changing your body language will also open you up and make you feel more confident. Studies have proved that when we change our body language we change how we feel. So you standing, moving, sitting, walking more confident will make you feel more confident.

As far as where to approach girls, EVERYWHERE, you will see girls giving you looks when you have confidence and are well groomed everywhere you go. Hell just the body language gets you overtures. I can go do laundry in sweats and get looks. Just start conversations with random people when you are shopping, when you are walking down the street, in the club, at the library, where ever. All you need to do is say "Hey how's it going?" preferably a much more original way then just that, it doesn't stimulate conversation to well in certain situations unless there is already initial attraction through approach cues.

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You should start by talking to women you don't know in public places. Obvious answer, but go do it.


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I'm an Aquarius and my English is not that good. But I know what you need.

After you get that adrenaline rush and extra boost in confidence from sarging cute girl cashiers, your next goal (as many suggested here) is to improve your body language skills-- the reading side, non-kino side and kino side.

Do this field routine for the reading side and non-kino side of body language. We'll get to the kino side when you reach your goal in this exercise.

Alpha Male Newbie Routine
  • 1. Stand straight. Chest out. Stomach in. And drop your hands to your sides. Don't exaggerate this posture. And don't put your hands in your pocket.

    2. Walk with purpose. Not too slow. Not too fast. Just right. Relax and glide.

    3. While looking straight, establish eye contact with the first girl that tries to hold your gaze.

    4. Don't look down. Don't look away. Maintain that gaze until the girl looks down or gazes away.
The goal of this newbie routine is to make you feel more comfortable being dominant (not domineering). Dominant men sexually turn on women. Your aim is to get ONE out of 10 girls to look down as you hold their gaze.

Getting 3 out of 10 is ideal. When you get 10 out of 10, then you're the man. :twisted:

for your #4 how does it work in college? Wouldn't everyone think I am a weirdo or creep if I do that to every girl that tries to hold my gaze? I can gaze at a girl with no problem. But how does it work w/o being a wierdo?


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for your #4 how does it work in college? Wouldn't everyone think I am a weirdo or creep if I do that to every girl that tries to hold my gaze? I can gaze at a girl with no problem. But how does it work w/o being a wierdo?
Add in open and non-threatening body language. That means a smile, open arms, and even a slightly turned head for neck exposure. You can gaze at someone and add a wink or a brow raise to send a flirtatious signal. You want your gaze to be comforting not uncomforting, that means open non-threatening body language.

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p.s. read up on body language, nothing is as important as that, your own shyness would change with your posture. believe me.
Definitely, DEFINITELY start paying attention to body language, your own as well as others. Training your body language to show alpha male characteristics changes how people perceive you immensely. And paying attention to other people's body language will teach you a great deal about that person.

Whenever I'm bored when walking down the street, or sitting in a bus or whatever, I like to do two things:

1) To try and feel which vibe people give off (do they make me feel reassured, threatened, awkward, at easy,...) and then pay attention to their body language and try to figure out what it is that makes me feel a certain way about them.

2) To change my own body language and see which reaction I get from people. I remember the first day I started doing this a couple of months ago, me and a buddy were walking down campus and I was trying to convey confidence and a relaxed, in control, carefree vibe through my walk. We passed 2 HBs I had never seen before, both looked me in the eye, started smiling and blushing. This never happened to me before so I was feeling really good at that moment :D. I remember my friend saying "dude, what the hell just happened" when the first lady smiled, and then 5 minute later "watthe...again! This is crazy, what did you do?" I felt like a boss ^^
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