Today, the pizza lady. help!



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 20, 2012 11:34 pm 
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Okay so today at work it was a late day so me and the co workers decided to order some pizza. My good friend that i work with orders the pie. As we wait for about 30 minutes he gets a call from the lady delivering the pizza pie. She was lost so he helped her find the way to the office. Finally she arrives in the office. At the time I was currently on the phone speaking to a future client that I had just closed. In the middle of speaking to my client i glance over and there she was. Instantly I said to my self damn she's looking right and sexy so as soon as i got off the phone I brought what i thought of her up. Everyone in the office easily agreed. As everyone was agreeing with me the kid who ordered the pizza said "hey I have her number she called me from her cellphone when she was lost do you want it?" I said "yes lets goo!"

So I sit there with her number thinking of what to say cause clearly she has no idea who i am. I started stressing it so I said eh fark it who cares ill just fark around. ( In the past when I would fark around leaving my feelings to the side I always did the best.)

This is how it went... very short and i had no swag cause I couldnt find anything to build a foundation off of and to grow from there as I like to see it. Here it is lol

Me: Hey the pizza was good but you looked better
Her: Creep
Me: Whos this?
Her: U texted me..........
Me: Oh yeh i deleted that right when i sent it. Figured you couldnt take a compliment
Her: Okay But who are you
Me: Matt clark the kid on the phone when you came it. Whats wrong with giving a compliment
Her: How did you get my number thats just weird
Me: Haha I know I got it from the kid who payed you for the pizza. I said to him you looked good so he gave me your number
Her: Lol Omg how does he have my number!
2 minutes later-- Her: Do you guys even know my name
Me: you called him when you were lost lmao
Her: Oh shit i forgot

Thats all Ive gotten to. I dont know what to say and how to build a connection and go from there. My questions to everyone who reads this is. 1. What could I have done better. 2. How can I build from this with her and ect just give me your opinions and what you think I should do next.

Thank you! :D


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:19 pm 
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It would take a miracle to fix that set. Getting a girl's number without any interaction is creepy no matter how many ways you slice it, especially since she had to use it for her job. You basically stole her number without any consent on her part and she now feels violated.

You knew where she worked and definitely could have found a more natural way of running into her again so that you could put in some quality game. You have to lay in the ground work for attraction instead of trying to skip to the end result.

Even if you wanted to use her number to get ahold of her in this situation (and by no means am I advocating it), you should have approached your texting differently. I'm guessing by your post that you're in sales so ideally it should have went down via a phone call (you can portray way more personality on the phone than through a text) and something like this:

You: Hello?
Her: Hello?
You: Hey I saw this number here at work and wanted to follow up on it. I'm so and so from whatever company.
Her: Oh yeah, I just dropped off a pizza there lol
You: My bad for interrupting but I totally thought you were a potential client haha (laugh at the silliness of the situation). Hey while I've got you on the phone... (kick into routines)

Fire up some banter and then shoot for a day 2 or at least an add on Facebook.

As far as repairing the situation, it would take a direct act of the pickup gods to fix this set. I mean we're talking some seriously high quality text game. My text game is bulletproof and I don't even know that I could fix it. Your best bet is to wait a few days and then hit her with something like this:

"hey I just wanted to touch base with you and apologize for my unconventional way of getting ahold of you the other day. I know it was a little unorthodox but I didn't want to waste the opportunity of getting to introduce myself to an intriguing person. There's this new frozen yogurt place I'm going to try out on Sunday, come with and I'll make it up to you. I promise nothing but interesting conversation"

It's a long shot but worth the effort.


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