text her in 1hour time, cause you don't want to be that loser that's in the corner sobbing away cause of his Past,show your still living your life

GOAL ACHIEVED !!!!!!

SMS : ' you know i love you damned !! and i miss you and you hurt me by being so rude to me like this !
this arguing is pissing ME of !! '

Now... the next goal is to get HER over here at my place instead of me running after her like a dog again....

HELP ??????

what should i do next ????

OMFG PUA WORKS !!!!

The whole point of a PUA is that we know what to do and how to behave, having said that we all make mistakes and i made a huge mistakes not long ago that i kind of regret but i learnt from it and it won't happen again. I came across too needy and ruined everything but it's the past and i had something to learn from. Anyways let's not get carried away shall we..

BOOM just as expected, girls don't like to be ignored especially in situations like this, so what you did in the past few days was the reason to why she let go of her ego. Now you need to finalise your move here's what to text her...

''i appreciate the feelings you have for me but you need to know that this is not all about you, a relationship should be a two way thing not a one way thing and in the past i was made the one to be putting in all the effort while you just acted okay, it's been (however long since you broke up) and i'm tired of arguements, i just wana chill and relax and not argue and i am willing to sit down and talk through this with you to see what we can do to make something work if we want to, so if you are being serious with this whole thing then come over (SET A DATE AND TIME) and hopefully we'll work something out. Last thing i want is to hurt you''

It's not easy but hey pal you got what you want, no everyone gets that

Okay thnx but...

I was the one who decided to break up !

And i can tell u that she won't be prepared to come over because in her eyes, I am the one who let's her down every time.

I can text her that but i don't think she will react positive and won't come over here.


After she said she loves me and misses me, i waited half an hour and i got sms again from her : 'you see, you still let me down ! i'll will go into town'

so i replied : ' look, i am sporting. I'll text you when i'm home again, have fun in town ! '

So what do i do when she says like no way i will come over. you come over to me !

Buddy no offense but your girl seems to be crazy and you gota sometimes give the crazy people what they want to get something from them right?

You say to her ''if you're serious about sorting things out then you gotta come over and show me that you care, you tell me that you care over a text but the only way i'll believe it is when you come over and if you don't wana come over then i don't think you have the right to tell me i'm not taking this seriously.''

There is a big chance that she'll say you come over but when you say that to her then you should flip things around, if she insists in not coming over then say well i don't think you should bother me again because i want someone who will show me that they care not just talk about how much they care.

Gona sound harsh but it's got to be done

look to be honest, mission complete.

you got the response we told you, you where gonna get. We got the response you wanted. Dont explain be short.

Like come over to my place to talk. or something along those lines. Make her COME TO YOU to get INFORMATION from you. Once you have here in person, do as you wish.

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"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

You need to decide with 100% certainty, whether you do or do not want to get back with her. Unclear intentions aren't promising for either party. If you're trying to lose a girl, then no response is the best response. Nothing sends a clearer picture to a woman than not responding to her phone calls or text messages. A failure to respond can only be interpreted as your lack of desire to speak to her, period.

first of all i want to thank you for your advice so far!

The last text i have send her was that i was going to watch a movie. I did not reply anymore.
Well, i got an sms 2 hours later : 'well get lost, i will not run after you like a dog, i did a lot of things to show you i an serious about our relation. You did not.'

Well, like i said, i was always the one who would come over to her over and over. She did not.
When i asked her why she wouldn't come over to me, she said like... Yeah well you are arguing with me so why should i come over to you. That would never gonna happen !

In her case, she did do some things to make it possible to be wtried ith me. When i was at her place she tried to have a day of from work. But when we had sex, it was often very late before we went to sleep and she could only sleep 2 or 3 hours and then had to go to work. She also mentioned that go her sms. It was her way to show me she was the one who always spend huge amount of time in our relation.

Is she having a statement here ? Maybe she did those things but for me it is not enough for showing me how serious she is. Because i am still the one who came over to her over and over, when we had an argue.

Well, from now on, i will not reply anymore, because she told me to get lost. Right?
But i do think she doesn't know what to do and she might be frustrated and that's why she send me this sms. Am i thinking right here?

So no more reply, like you guys advice me and lets see what happens.

More advice is welcome...

Damn, i really want her to beg for me now, because i think i did a lot to compromise in the past.

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You've posted this comment before? what's the point?

I can't believe what is happening here !!!

My GF and i had so many argues, and EVERY fucking time i was the one who decided to come over to her over and over and over to talk about it.

Now that i followed all the advices you guys gave me, she WILL come over to my place !

in one of my last sms to her i said a few words and one of them was like, come over to my place and we'll talk about it.

With NONE hesitation she awnsered 'OKAY, i will... but why did you think i was texting you so much TODAY ??? '

other words... she was allready thinking of coming over, if i just asked her earlier.

Now she will come over to my place somewhere next week... yeah well... after all i'm a 'busy' man now... right ?

Thank you all for helping me out. if my GF and i ever argue again, i will know how to handle and i will NO MORE have my doubts about the PUA mastery.

I was sceptic... first of all i thought like... yeah if i ignore her she will walk out on me anyway, there she will be thinking i don't want her no more and she shall accept it.

But then again... what we (you bro's and i ) just did, was mindfucking HER.
So it is true... we must and shall be the alpha male.
No more Mr. Nice guy.

I'm thrilled and still can't believe what impact this method has on woman.

I've been so damn needy for faaaaaar to long and now this is the moment where i understand why previous relationships ended so suddenly, without a clue for me.

Thank you all for this great eye opener.

If you were all GIRLS i would kiss you all haha


And now i will go have a look at the ' inner game ' section, for there are a lot of things i have to change about myself !

For now... thank you my friends and i will be hanging around here for a while so i'll bee pleased for getting more help on next 'issues' .

Greetings,

A Alpha man in progress

Exactly what I told you to do, now dont kill it by overtexting before you meet. LISTEN WAIT UNTIL YOU SEE HER IN PERSON

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"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

Well, offcourse we had some more texting, i have send the last sms. but it was a nice texting.

But now offcourse she is the one who waits long time before texting back... but now i don't bother no more.

I'm going to see her soon and i will make myself clear.

One more question...

My GF is indeed very insecure, but she told me often that there were always some guys hanging around her when she went out to pubs.

Can it be that my GF was used to be in company of Needy guys ?
I know that her ex friend was some kind of needy mr. nice guy. I asked her once ; 'what do you like about me '

her awnser ; ' you are exactly the opposite of my ex boyfriend '

Is maybe just that what makes her love me so much ?

I mean... are there really so many guys beeing needy on this planet ???

kinda weird question but i was just wondering...

Yes.

that's why women like CONFIDENCE.

Neediness is unattractive, women like men who are happy with themselves and don't need someone to feel good.

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"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

One of her last texting was like this ; ' you know i love you, it would be nice for you in the future to text me a bit sooner because i don't play games and i mean all the good for our relationship. if you want me, you'll have me. Now it's up to you to think about what YOU want... i'll give you some time to think about it.

Now that is achieved my goal... her telling me she misses me and love me...

i text her that she knows i love her, no doubt about it but that i want everything that belongs to a good relationship, for her to take me with her to her family and not to be ashamed of me for what happened in the past.
i told her i want her in my life but if the 'fighting' won't stop, i will be forced to consider it all.
Also i told her that it would mean a lot to me for her to come over to me.


I hope this aint wrong... i was thinking about it after sending.

But she told me she misses me and loves me. in my perception this is a moment to appreciate her confession and that's why i texted her this.

From now on i will await text from her and till then i will keep calm.