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read my top post and u'll find out why... Dude it's not all about being cocky and funny. She has replied every message I've sent her exept for when I'm asking her out. She complies, she quallifies, she's being flirty and told me she likes me.. I reckon it just her trust I can't earn cause her frame is different than mine and I need more frame residence. She just won't believe me that I want to date her cause I'm assuming she got hurt before in her life.
quick checklist for you man, this will give you the bare essentials to differentiate a time waster from a girl to invest in
-will she talk to you after you openly show intent towards her
-will she allow meaningful kino (holding hands, hand around shoulder, kissing, sexual kino)
-will she be alone with you
if she won't allow any one of these, it is safe to say, she is low interest, or sexually unavailable to you
a girl may be interested in you, but sexually unvailable, so she will flirt and lead you on in an attempt to make you orbit, she will do this so if she suddenly becomes available she has a backup plan,
downside to this though, is you don't know how interested she is because she is low compliance, and you don't know how long until she is available, and you don't know how many other guys are orbiting her, and the longer it takes to make something happen, the more likely it would seem ''weird'' to her to close, and the more time you have to get attached to a likely waste of time
girls that are interested and worth investing in, flirt back when you flirt with them, reciprocate kino, and don't flake when you ask them out
3 flakes in a row is a sign of low-interest, don't judge ioi's, judge compliance, a girl can say she wants to suck your dick really bad, but then turn you down for a meet up 15 times in a row, and continue texting you every day for a year, does that mean she is going to give you a blowjob?, no she just likes to keep you in orbit in case of emergency (likely she has a better option, and you are just emergency dick that will likely not be used)
you don't have to delete time wasters from your phone or anything, but if you are making one a top priority your life as a girl to sleep with, then you will only fuck yourself in the ass, and get oneitis for a girl that doesn't care about you as much as you care about her, drop contact with time wasters, less time talking to them and building rapport, less contact, when you do contact, invite them out, the more they say no, the less attention from you they get, move onto other girls and just leave them as they are, the girls you contact once every 2 weeks to a month to shoot out an invite that gets flaked on
if one becomes available to you, make sure your logistics are covered, and do your best to have sex with her, but don't count on it
CHAT
