Hey, I was just wondering if you guys'd agree with me.

I'm having a very steady relationship with a girl, we're telling eachother we love eachother for some time now. I notice I'm letting go a lot of PUA stuff.

Isn't it the greatest thing to be needy sometimes, or at least let your guard down?

You don't understand the word needy, do you? Needy behaviour naturally annoys people, therefore, it is not recommended in any kind of situation. Being generally kind, buying something for your girl occasionally, and things like that does not count as needy. Also, what type of "guard" do you have on, when you're not letting it down? Also... Sorry but I had to laugh at this. The amount of relevant information in this sentence is zero. Sorry if I was a bit harsh, but I just don't understand what do you mean...or trying to say.

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Strongly disagree. It's not hard to have good relationship game. In fact, when done well.. it makes 99% of the relationship stuff effortless. In fact, it's fine to be really infatuated with a girl, to spend a lot of time with her and to show her you love her.. as long as she's awesome and she treats you like a king. It's called rewarding good behavior.

-Wolf

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Isn't it normal to show your girl you love her? The only thing you have to avoid is becoming her manbag. Don't be an asshole but do not accept bad behaviour from her either. Girls want sex with badboys but relationships with stable guys.

Absolutely agree.

Frankly, I use game as my last resort (meaning game that I am aware off a lot is subconscious nowadays). If I am getting what I want by just being me and acting on impulse, why would I need elaborate plans or need to think about what I am saying?

The game was invented by guys who basically had no game. Total losers, and they made all these rules and guidelines to compensate for their own shortcomings. So if you dont have shortcomings, there is no need to play those parts of the game anymore.

Anyways, a good relationship is instant inner game.

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What I ment with guard was: using pua tactics like push/pull and making decisions in general based on what you know of social interactions.

I stand by my choice of the word needy; English may not be my first language but I think it means "being in need". And what I ment was: showing a girl that you need her (you've heard it in a lot of pop songs, I suppose).

Telling eachother we love eachother was a meaningless sentence, indeed. I should have typed: love eachother.

The reason I made this post was because I wanted to know what other guys thought of letting the learned stuff go, while in a relationship.

you have to add balance, just be yourself.

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