Alock

So after a year of hard work I got into college, and tomorrow is my first real party.
Objectives : Open 15 sets
KC

Hope i can get the KC for some confidence boost, since I'm probaly gonna see the girl I'm texting saturday.

Just a quick post, Thanks

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You got this bro!

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-Raphael

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Alock

So things didn't go as well as i expected, nether the less, here is the report.
The party was pretty big and full, there were lots of girls, but only a few that caught my attention. I had just one problem, from where I come freshman have to shave their heads, and lets say that this makes it harder for me to get HV.
I opened 7 sets.
On one of them I got CB really bad, 3 sentences with the girl and her friend pulls her, that was bad, my wingman helped the second time being able to really hold up her friend a second time a tried to talk to her, but no use since she rejected me fast because I was new to the university.
Another one, I felt really like an idiot. I saw the girl and to try not to feel AA I went with the 3 secs rule, and as I started talking to the girl, I got IDI and the shit was on, but then I took a better look at her and she didn't please me, so i ejected, I'm hating my self for doing so, as I could go for th KC on her if continued.

Questions:
Am I being to picky? Do I have to bring my standards down at least while I'm learning?
I know a lot of theory, but I can't use well on the field, or I blackout in action, is this lack of practice?



Thanks

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"Am I being to picky? Do I have to bring my standards down at least while I'm learning? "

NO!
you cant get the best out of yourself if you're not feeling like the chick worth it!
instead,go for an even HOTTER chicks!
game is diff on hotter girls,practice on 6's and game 9's and you're going down...!


"I know a lot of theory, but I can't use well on the field, or I blackout in action, is this lack of practice? "

YES.



keep it up bro'!

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Alock

First of all thanks CaliForniCatioN for the reply, gonna start training more and shoot for the stars

No for the real deal, sorry for not updating the journal as much as expected, to many things going on, had no actual time for PU, things are getting more organized and we should make more posts.

So this week i've started online sarging and old class-mate of mine, since she is no longer in my class it won't break my rule of not gaming girls from the same class.
She has recently broken up with her long time BF (3 years), and as time has passed i felt a larger interest for her making me choose to go online sarging(since I don't meet with her that often).

As we were talking one day, she said she didn't have my number, so I made her flirt with me to try to get, everything went well had a lot of fun. The other day I remembered i actually didn't have her number, and she made me flirt with her, everything went well, built a lot of rapport, and used a catch frase that she really liked. The Problem was that as we finished and i got her phone, she said, now you know if you talk like that with a girl in a club, she will be all over you.

At that moment i felt F*** did I mess up or this is good, after that I ended the conversation and left.

Questions:
What should be the interpretation of this reply and how well did I evolve the game?
Should I start texting?


Thank You

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First off to answer your question from last week... you should talk to a lot of people just come off as that social guy, have fun with people, and practice your skills and calibration, no shame in that at all. When you see a girl you really want you will than be in the zone and more likely to get her.

Second, this convo with this girl, I don't know what it is, but you are fine!!! Great job what ever you did. Stop over analyzing it, you got a girls number. If you haven't texted her at all yet, then do say saying this is XXXX funny reference.

Then all you need to do is call her and set up a date!

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-Raphael

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What is up people, long time no see. Loco here.

So, no fr here, just want to share some stuff with you guys.

Life is going great, I've been able to improve my game, in these weeks I managed to become the alpha of the class (had to run over some people, but it is all cool now ).

I have a few problems to manage, some choices I gotta make but i believe in time things will fall into place.

Me and Alock have developed a kind of rule, never game a chick that is in the same class you are. Chances are things will go very bad. This is a problem, most of the chicks I'm gaming, some just to practice, are in my class. What do you guys think of this?

And now why I have been away from the forum and from the community in general. I kinda of lost faith in it. I learnt a lot of things, almost 90% of what i know about the game I picked up here on this forum and by reading some books.

At first I was very active, but i started to see that this isn't truly a community, 99% of the guys here join to solve a little thing and then leave, or just pick up a lot of info and give no feed back. To put it planly so there is no mistake, this is like a swamp with A LOT OF LEECHES.

Alock managed to convince me to give it a second chance, and to put faith where it belongs, in people like Californication and Raphael, in people like Chief and Don Drapper, TonyKing and others.

So, Im back. Any help i can give and any feedback you can give to me is REALLY appreciated.

Peace and GAME ON.

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I always game girls in my class bro, what can go wrong. I have a generic rule, things only go awkward if you say... "This is awkward~?~!~?" Seriously, she says no, what ever who gives a shit, just friend zone her, and game another girl, she might actually later be turned on by your confidence, and then get jealous that you don't like her sexually as much as the other girl you are gaming. Then the fun really starts!

This is a community if you let it become yours. Just help others out and you will find people will seek yours.

Hope the second time around is the best and final

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-Raphael

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I feel you, if things go wrong while gaming girls in class, your kinda stuck with your mistake. Thats why in these 'closed' settings you have to be a bit more careful, but if you think a chick in your class is worth it, go for her!

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Alock

The concept of friendzoning the girl, making you more attractive seems logical, must try that out.
But as Derek mentioned, as for all mistakes you do you're stuck with them. I really identify with that, especially because I've made a lot of mistakes in the past before joining the community. I don't think, personally, I haven't conquered old traumas of class gaming, to go for it again. Probably need some more time.

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Don't , it's bullshit.

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What exactly is bullshit? Gaming girls that are in the same class as you or NOT doing it?

And why the hell that was your last lr man?

Loco here.

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Alock

Field Report 24/03/2012

So yesterday I went to a friend's party, a lot of new people, more girls than usual for his parties.
I was very social, actually, I was quite surprised on this topic, I was being able to talk to group of people I've never seen, about a lot of different topics, and maintaining their interest, some would actually come talk to me out of nowhere, that felt really good and that showed some upgrade on my part. probably a consequence of entering a university.

Now to the girls, I felt like I overthinked a lot, I didn't do the 3 second rule, and that's mostly were I fucked up, I took so long to start, that my options drastically fell. As the party was more of a friendly place with lot of people talking, there wasn't a lot of openers, all I had to do was go there and talk, but when I put in my mind that i was going for a certain girl, my conversation ability suffered, I couldn't keep the conversation flowing.

I opened about 7 sets, and tried to go for a KC 2 times, unfortunately failed miserably, I'm having a hard time transitioning for a sexual frame, and this is where I most need help.


So what I've learned:
I'm Improving, slowly, but I am.
Don't postpone, if you want something go for it ASAP

Questions:
I have always overthinked stuff, some times that's good for me, but in the pickup scenario this is killing me, how to overcome this, and please don't just say use the 3 second technic.
I think I'm not escalating well with KINO, I think I'm skipping the mid part, I do the slow, but then I go the more intense part really fast.



Just some last thing, Loco did some good wining, distancing the friends from my targets. KUDOS to him.


So I think that covers pretty much everything, if you guys want conversation situations, let me know and I will try to remember. Any feedback will be appreciate, and last thanks for supporting and reading our journey to PUA.


Thanks

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Well to get sexual eye contact is key, than just slow down your speech and pause... every few... words.... so the moment... gets... slower... and slower... and more dramatic... and sexual... then get closer... and closer.... brush whisper in her ear but remain eye contact.... then brush your lips against hers but dont kiss, then back away do again and then kiss and pull away and then when she wants more you go in

Hope that helps with that.

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-Raphael

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Finaly a good step by step hahahhaa, thanks Raphael.Rapoport, gonna try it out asap

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