This girl. She makes me crazy.

I know her through school, im 17 yrs old. She came with me to play tennis and we had a lot of fun. But i didnt use any of the techniques this site, and the book "the game" has taught me. Im too kind to nag someone. She is into rough guys, of that im sure. Im the average guy who gets no girls because he is too kind. Thats my handicap. How should i move on from here?

I always talk to her on facebook and she is always nice, but she never starts talking to me.

Greetz, Maarten
Thx so much in advance.

Have you ever seen the movie " I love you Beth Cooper?"

_________________
Email me: EddieFews@WayOfThePlayer.com For 1 on 1 coaching or consultation via SPAM, phone or IM.

Now You Can Read My Articles Here! ------------> http://wayoftheplayer.com/category/play ... fews-tips/

Hit up other birds

_________________
Stay High

"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

i agree with the guy above me, just find another chick and dont hide abt it

this is a good opportunity, gotta take advantage of it man! try some moves and start being sarcastic/jokish instead of so nice. make her laugh and then be flirty and shit

_________________
i can't wait to get laid

...why would he find a new girl when nothing bad has happened with the current one? Sometimes the advice people give is so recycled it's just amazing to me.

Maarten, you're doing fine and I don't see what the problem is. You got her to hang out with you so that's a victory in itself. True, being too nice will ultimately fuck you over, but it's never too late to toughen up a bit. That doesn't mean you have to start being an asshole, though. Just tease her more and joke around with her. There's this huge misconception out there that girls like assholes, and that's simply not the case. They like a guy who is confident enough in himself to where he can say what he wants, joke around when he wants, and ensure everyone goes home happy. Surely you can do that.

He said he is the one always initiating. You should hit up other girls to get you off the the mindset of only talking to this one girl. I did not say for him to stop trying to get with her, just to not focus on her alone.

_________________
Stay High

"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

Talk to others girls so you wouldn't be a needy guy ... needy guy who is seeking an out come from her. When you talk/interact with other girls, you develop an abundance mind frame were you don't care if you lose your cherish girl because you have other girls to interact with. Which ironically, will help you get your cherish. Outcome dependent = chode needy guy .... Abundance mind frame = pimp ^_^.

When you do hang out establish a man to woman interaction compared to a friend to friend interaction. To establish a man to woman interaction ... the easiest way is to make out with her ^_^ ... You can also be more touchy, develop inside jokes, give her nicknames ... show your intentions.

You can do the Tim's Flawless Natural way of developing a Bubble of love interaction. Basically, you develop a bubble around you guys by role playing that you guys are:

1) Boy friend and girl friend.
2) Getting married.
3) Her being your play mate.
4) Her being your girl friend in the next 10 minutes.
5) "Oh I use date a girl name [insert cherish name here] .... she was trouble"

This will help you steer/direct the interaction to a guy expressing his intentions to a girl because you will be doing/talking about things that relate to interactions of the list above.

Example: With 100% belief and in a fun tonality say: "Alright I've decide that we are boyfriend and girl friend now [grab her hand] ... what do boy friend and girl friends do? Let's go on a date at that bench/ go on a first date by going for a walk/ ... etc etc etc ..."

Example2: "Alright I"ve decide that you and I are married now" ... now you can divorce each other, make up again ... kiss her ... etc etc etc ...

It's pretty fun to these role plays for the both of you guys and you won't run out of things to say since you just talk about things that relate to the list above.

Sincerely,

Donston