im going to run over a few things my ex girlfirend has been doing lately that makes me feel like she hasnt let go. but first...
a month ago we kissed on the anniversary of our first kiss. it was very emotional but got interupted. a week later i told her i had feelings while we were drunk and we ended up in a huge arguement after which i basically thought we wouldnt be friends again so i left the country to thailand where i had a great time which i think she may have noticed because since i have returned....
-she has started coming into my work once a week when i am rostered on.
-she wears an outfit she knows without fail turns me on.
-she stretches in front of me when im not paying her attention.
-when we do talk she brings up old personal jokes, touches me, teases me, vaguely speaks of other guys (jealousy plot).
-she talks to my mum often, like weekly.
-she hints at seeing each other in the future e.g. "youd better keep working on mondays when i come in" or "im going to go to uni with you on friday so i can use the database (which she can do from home).
-i saw her out on the weekend, i was being hit on by an older woman and she interupted it blatantly telling this strange woman that we have sexual history.
-my mun had lunch with her boss today and he made it apparent that she speaks very highly of me, as does her brother who i am friends with.

so what the fuck do i do? I am going to have to be a rock which i have failed to do every other time i tried to rekindle things which is why it has never worked. i always revert to begging. i think im going to have to play it slow and pick her up not rely on old feelings.
advice PLEEEEAAAASSSE

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