Lately I have been having a huge issue with having girls not hook up with me at the very last minute because of their boyfriends. Last night I had a girl come over to my house, get very drunk with me in my hot tub, and then decide to sleep over in my bed.

Immediately when we get into bed we start intertangling our legs and shit. It was definitely going down. Then I go to hook up with her like i normally would and she goes "we cant hook up you know I have a boyfriend".

I think I didnt ease into it enough and just dove in like i normally do when were both drunk.

This has been the third or fourth time this has happened though recently and the second with this particular girl. I cant think of any other reason that they wouldnt hook up.

What would you all do in my situation?

These patterns have worked excessively well for most of my friends
You must say one of these after she has informed you of having a boyfriend

Boyfriend Destroyer Pattern 1.
Written by Speed Seduction founder, Ross Jeffries:
“You’re kind of seeing somebody? As you’re only kind of seeing that picture of him in your mind, notice what happens as that picture gets smaller & darker only as quick as an picture of you & me being together having lots of fun gets large & brighter right there in its place.
Now as you look at that picture right there, doesn’t it appear like something you really desire. Oh yea, in fact, doesn’t it appear like something that’s already happened & there’s no point resisting it cause it’s late to do anything but sigh that sigh of deep satisfaction & know this is going to be wonderful. Oh yea, great, so when am I able to pick you up?”

Boyfriend Destroyer Pattern 2.
Attributed to Ross Jeffries:
Well, I should admit I’m disappointed, I have to respect that you’re in a relationship. But let me ask you a something. How surprised would you be to find yourself actually looking forward to spending a little time with me? I mean, maybe to the point where you could imagine us over coffee, laughing & having the best of time, & you beginning to feel really comfortable with it? As you give it some thought like that, doesn’t appear natural to meet like Monday or Tuesday for coffee?
“Well, look I really enjoyed this, & I’d like to speak to you again sometime? am I able to call you? you have a fella?
What a never-ending monologue:) But if she’s a listener, you’ll do fine:)

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They say the grass is greener on the other side, but have you ever flipped it over?

try to sleep with girls that don't have boyfriends?

*Shrug* Just make it abundantly clear that you don't care whether or not she has a bore-friend. All hot girls have boyfriends. It's just a shit test, usually. I've always liked, "Oh good, so you'll have somebody to hang out with when I'm not around!"

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

I agree with Wolfwoodd. If she is in a hot tub with you drinking and laughing your 90 percent there. I dont think either boyfriend destroyer would work here bc you are already at your place not trying to get a date.Id work more on Kino escalation at this point .She is obviously into you work from tickling and massages . If you know the hair pulling routine this is exactly what its ment for.

wat he said^
shes defiantly not gf material tho so dont be fallin

Thanks guys for the responses. Sonic, I think you hit the nail on the head with this one. Looking back on the night i just assumed she wanted to fuck since she decided not to go home with her friend and sleep over. I chilled out and didnt kino at all until getting into bed. I really need to work on that aspect of my game. Thanks man.

No worries . I used to skip the kino escalation myself when i first started out. It also makes you do a push and pull . by the end of the night she is gonna want to jump your bones. lol