It's a problem I have. My shallowness. I'll be the first to admit I'm a cunt because of it, the rest of you can jump in to add to that if you so wish.

Basically I've been with various girls ranging from hot to ok and because of that I feel I only deserve the hot ones, the not so hot aren't good enough for me. Like there's this one girl I'd want to take out, but because she's on the lower end of my scale I feel that I just can't ask her because of my big fat ego. I don't even deserve her if I think like that.

It seems that being with better looking girls kinda of put me off less prettier ones. Partly because I feel I deserve better (which on it's own isn't necessarily a bad thing) and partly because of my ego.

I will happily start conversations with the random employee at Subway regardless of looks and game her but won't get a number purely because I have no interest. And to me this is perfectly acceptable. But when it comes to dating god I'm shallow.

This is probably the main thing holding me back. Please refrain from abuse and help a brother. How does one kill shallowness?

First of all, it's great the you acknowledge this. So many guys aren't even aware of and how much shallowness sabotages your game, and they keep blindly going after these pretty women even though they themselves are not even close to deserving them.

One question you could ask yourself is what's keeping you from dating average women? You certainly don't need to marry them. Average women make great friends with benefits, one night stands, and, honestly, you don't have to do as much work. With hot women, you're dealing with a mountain of bullshit, shit tests, all that–for what? In a dark room, she probably feels the same way while you're screwing her as an average woman.

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ElliotGordon I'll agree with u on this. I'm 22 and while yea it is nice to hookup with an hb8 or hb9 I'm not really trying to settle at this point in my life so I agree definitely go for a chilled cute girl. Cuz in my opinion if I were to date a hot babe right now I would just have to worry about her cheating and flirting with guys all the time. So how I see it is find a girl that's a hb7.5 or hb8 and that's cute but has the body of an hb10 cuz I don't know about u but I love a girl with a rocking body and if she has an ass that turns heads then she's worth keeping atleast for a little bit lol

That's one thing that puts me off super hot girls is the hassel they bring. But they're good to show off as a GF.

I think the problem originates with my ego, how others think, how I think about it etc. This is the only area where I care about my ego and how others think normally with other things it doesn't come into it.

I'm trying to kill my ego so maybe I can get around it.

Why do you want to be more interested in women you aren't physically attracted anyway?

And a hot girl only gives hassle to the insecure..

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