Bud, I appreciate your reply, but online definitely is *not* the basis for my opportunities to meet women. It's simply used as a supplement to the things I always do anyway. But if I happen to get a lot of dates from it in one 2-3 week span...
I talk about that in some of my other posts.

I turned 30 in late January, but then, I only started hitting the bar and club scene when I was about to turn 26. You could say I got a late start, but after this girl I had dated for some 6 months and I thought it was developing into something more started to get distant and started spending lots of time with her orbiters, only to leave me for an orbiter, I vowed "Fuck this shit and the prospect of finding a girl who'd actually want something long term with a guy. I'm gonna hit the clubs and bars like everyone else my age does."

Online has been a nice supplement, and I dare say, as far as lining up first dates, sometimes it's really easy access.

It's just what I've seen lately that gives me pause.

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No chemistry means she just did not like you enough to consider dating you. Its just one of those political correct ways to say that.

But did I get it right - all 5 random girls that do not know each other said exactly the same thing, I mean did they all exactlyt used word "chemistry" in their excuses?
Thats one huge coincidence if so, I mean thats almost x files territory.

Well, not to the word, but the first two mentioned "chemistry",

Worded like, "Hey Rob, I had fun too, but I just didn't feel the chemistry."

Then, "Yeah, I had a good time, you seem like a nice guy but I guess the chemistry just isn't there."

The third said something about "don't feel the connection"

The fourth said chemistry, the fifth said "Honestly, there's someone else in the picture that I feel a better connection with". I told her I wasn't sure why she'd keep dating if she already me someone she has this great connection with. No response, then again, what should I have expected?

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Believe it or not, there is actually a way to turn the whole " Didn't ffeel the chemistry" text around if you use the proper approach. You are too concerned with making them think "logically" about the response, Ex. " how much chemistry do you expect to feel on the first date?" They don't care about that, what you wanna do is make a comment to flip they're emotions around.. That is the format, I won't be giving you a message you can use, that is for you to figure out.

When you first see these women on the date what do you do? HandShake? .. The first 20 seconds will usually determine how good the date goes.. I know as soon as I see the girl im going out with, I start with a huge warm hug and a big smile, along with a kiss somewhere on they're face.

I know with the girl im currently dating, as soon as I saw her, did the big hug/kiss thing and said something like " well damn girl! " I then told her as we were about to walk to our destination, " here slip your arm around mine like we're getting married" We made out within the first 5 mins.. It takes a lot of pressure off of you both the sooner thats out the way. Don't try and be quiet and cool, show your personality first thing.

And oh yea, Chuck the whole online dating thing until you at least have women in your lives from other sources

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