I have 2 friends that know how to talk constantly. I dont know how to do that and I know it is important in order to show personality.
How do you talk constantly to show personality?
as a kid i played to many video games and stayed at home. know that I am an adult I realized I am lacking social skills.

Have a lot of interests. Live an active life. If you have a lot of stories to tell, then it makes conversations flow much easier.

You may also want to consider taking an improv class. It really helped one of my friends who had the same issue.

-Wolf

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Its important to have a fun and intresting life and enough to tell things to tell about, but sometimes is not that bad to add a bit story telling with it.

I do want to say that some people are really extrovert and can talk endless about things, and thats not because they have are more intresting life but because thats just ther personality!
I knew a few of these types and these kinda people just keep talking all the time.

Yeah I have to agree, a lot of the people I know who are good at this have fucking stupid pathetic lives but they just talk on autopilot and never shut the hell up and even though what they're saying actually IS NOT that interesting and does not reflect any particularly amazing lifestyle, their DELIVERY is somehow captivating and draws people in even when they're talking about the type of sandwich they like to get for lunch from the cart on 59th st.

Thanks for the replies and I agree with you guys in that some people are extroverts and say things that arent even that interestinng; the 2 guys I know are that way. It must be their delivery, their confidence, and the fact that they are extroverts. I know i can get my delivery right, and my confidence up, but being extroverted is difficult because this is a personality type. Maybe adding routines to my conversations will help and i will add stories were i can. What do you guys think.I will definitely consider taking improve classes.

Today i talked to an hb8 in my school and the conversation was going excellent. I was talking on and on and we were both contributing to the conversation. IOI's i got were what are you going for, how long have you been in school, and laughing.

confidence played a roll in continuing the conversation. i felt like i could say anything and voice my opinion about anything. I am developing a mindset in conversation that "conversation is like a tree branch." and confidence is like the roots of that tree.

what i realized is that i was looking for key words and sentences from her so i can either talk about it or transition to something else.

tomorow i am going to apply this again and see what happens.

2 dAYS AGO i talked to a 34 year old woman, beatiful, maried, a kid, and i closed her. it was the most interesting close ever. we had alot in common, her birthday is one day after mine, she likes and dislikes similar things as i do. basically we talked for 30 minutes and after that i was thinking, how did i keep the conversation going?

is it something that naturally happens like dolphins speaking to each other, like elephants communicating, like birds chirping?

we brang up topics like do i have a girlfriend, how old is she, have you lived here all your life, what is your second job, what school are you going for, are you happy with your girlfriend. All of these questions required me to input more than a yes or a no. they required me to talk and talk and show value.

I asked her questions that required her to talk as well and i found out many things about her.

after that close my confidence whent back up.
share what you think on how to keep conversation going?, it can just be your toughts.