How do you find they respond after and do you actually think it is almost a DHV?

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When they say you're arrogant, just smile and say "maybe so". Don't back off or you'll give her control. But at the same time, gauge her body language so you can tell how serious she is. You might need to slowly back down a little because you could be pissing her off.

When they question a freeze out, just pretend like you have no clue what they're talking about. But remember, freeze outs only work if they are very attracted to you already.

had a few funny situations happen, but one (kind of a freeze out) happened when a girl who i was trying to get last year, and been speaking to since, ignored a reply to meet me for a coffee. She then saw me out in the street and didnt acknowledge me so i blocked her on facebook.

Next day I get a message on my phone, tell me 'she was just about to message me' when she sees i blocked her.. and how childish I am and good riddance etc..

Wasn't sure how to handle that from there.. truth is what I did next prob made it worse.. but what would your thoughts have been?

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I think you know already, but reacting in the way you did (blocking her on Facebook) is something you don't really want to do. It shows you were affected by her actions and it makes you look pretty bad. And don't worry, it's very doubtful she was actually going to message you. Women use that stupid template with everything... "I was going to have sex with you until you told me I don't ever put out", "I was going to kiss you until you did XXX", "I was going to XXX until you YYY". See the pattern?

At this point in your story I would have probably deactivated my Facebook and told her that's what happened. But don't use that advice since it could also backfire. I guess the moral of the story is to not do what you did.

But all is not lost, there is still experience to be had! What did you do next?

My response was childlike and loser like..

I told her that she had ignored me so thought I would just make it easier for her and take her off. Offered to put her back but told her that she is disrespectful etc..

She then blocked me lol... we exchanged abuse on text for half a day and that was it.


I get what you are saying and its a lesson learnt. She actually has a boyfriend and her words to me a few weeks ago were that

'he asked me to move in with him.. I thought about it for a month.. and then decided to.. so I am nearly off the market now'

Just out of curiosity.. how do you interpret language like that?

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I'd definitely leave it alone then. She can mean one of two things, and neither one are really any good:

1) She is NEARLY off the market, meaning she thinks you could steal her away still. This is not likely what she means, but it's still a possibility I guess. Even if it is, she's definitely not relationship material since she is incapable of loyalty.

2) She has no interest in you and is trying to get you to go away.

It's just odd that she spent so much time fighting with you if she has no real interest. Hmmm...

I agree and I have ruled her out. I liked this girl alot.. she is stunning,, we got on well, she is very smart etc.. but we had a couple of dates and nothing happened in the end.. her decision. I came on too strong (pre PUA forum days)..

I went away recently for a couple of days, and when she realised I was away, she was striking up converation with me.. like trying to make conversation. It was weird.. at one point when I hadnt answered for a bit, she started telling me about someone who had a car accident and died.. and then goes 'sorry that wasnt for you'.. but kind of wanting me to ask about it. Im sure she did that on purpose..

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