So here is the situation:

First date with this HA9 (hot asian) girl I met through a friend. First date happened about 3 weeks (my bad mistake, went on way to long...5 hours, lunch and high tea), hugged her at end of date. The week after (3 days later) I asked her out to Dinner, but that didn't fly. So she said she was more comfortable with coffee. A couple days later, called her, talked for about 45 minutes, and she was going on vacation in Asia the next day.

I emailed her on places to visit (since i had a friend who has been to Asia, and she went to where she was going). She replied thanks, i emailed a couple days later to followup, replied with a change of plans on where she was going, I emailed a few days later to no reply.

Called her twice over the course of the 2 weeks, left voicemail. Then I stopped calling.

Came back 3 days ago. I called her yesterday, and she didn't pick up, but texted me a few hours later, saying "sorry, missed your call asking what's up?"

Seriously, not sure what she wants, but should I bother trying to pursue any further? We are both Asian. But she can't chased by quite a few guys from what know.

I am guessing maybe we are in friends zone? Not sure, but should I act further? How should I respond to the text?

You did not build enough attraction. You should have gone for the kiss close, not a hug (LJBF)

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"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

Awfull rookie mistakes. I can smell and feel your neediness across my computer. She is clearly not investing in you

No investment = no attraction

No attraction means only friends. Stop running around like a puppy dog after her ass..sending e-mails, calling, sending texts..this is way too much dude. Your 5 hour date...you need to fucking sexually escalate. You cannot have a 5h date with a girl and not be able to escalate in order to at least give her a kiss. Also, did you qualify? I bet you didn't. Qualification is used to build investment from her in your interaction. A lot of mistakes you did. You lost it..move on

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Yee

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"I'm savage as fuck, and willing and able and never got clowned cuz when it came around I was down to put my dick on the table"

thanks guys, yeah, I'm a bit rusty, I just came off a pretty long relationship. Gotta get back into it.

I got a lot of nice guy feedback from a lot of friends. The thing is I think this girl has had a abusive relationship (after being engaged) so I didn't know how best to approach it. Should knowing that impact how I should have approached it?