A successful player obviously gives a shit. He is well dressed/ well groomed, speaks and acts accordingly. most likely cultured with a good social circle. ( all signs of giving a shit about himself).
However women are drawn to the persona of "not giving a shit".
The fact that you as a potential mate don't really care if the girls decides to hook up with you or not as you will just find another, is what will draw her in. ( I am sure you already know this Kasabi, with your infinite knowledge of women and pick up...ha!)
If you are a street kid or bum and you approach a woman with a "not give a shit" attitude, its only gonna be seen as that as everything else fits the mold. But you are comparing apples and oranges. What you are stating is completely pointless. This isn't a self help forum It's a pick up forum. More specific, picking up women.
When are you gonna start writing relevant posts. This one is pointless and a waste of everyone's time.
Maybe you should stick to telling people to get intimate with their shampoo bottles.
The fact that you were inspired to write this garbage shows me how much you really need to get laid. If ya want some pointers, send me a PM. I'll be glad to help you out.
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A successful player obviously gives a shit. He is well dressed/ well groomed, speaks and acts accordingly. most likely cultured with a good social circle. ( all signs of giving a shit about himself).
Thanks, ^this is the point.
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When are you gonna start writing relevant posts. This one is pointless and a waste of everyone's time.
Maybe you should stick to telling people to get intimate with their shampoo bottles.
The fact that you were inspired to write this garbage shows me how much you really need to get laid. If ya want some pointers, send me a PM. I'll be glad to help you out.
Most of the bad advice on this forum comes from confusion between cause and effect.
A successful player does many things. Some of those things elevated him to the success he has. Other things are effects of being successful for so long.
Not giving a shit is an effect of success. You get this quality from having abundance whether you like it or not. It isn't a teaching point.
"I approach her because I give a fuck , but in the second she disrespects me she is gone."
Wait a little more than a second. We're not 7 year old kids; what do they do? They'll call some kid their "best friend" one day, then they'll tell the kid that they hate him/her the next day. This is the domain of babies . . . and WOMEN. They typically ride the emotional roller coaster. I really have no idea why grown up men do this . . .
"Not Giving a Fuck" will lead a guy to tell a girl to "fuck off" the moment he senses negativity. He doesn't like how things 'feel' and he doesn't give a fuck about the girl or the interaction so there's no need to stick around. On the other hand, if you care about all of these things, you'll stick it out. . . and explore a little more. A solution can often be found.
Most of the bad advice on this forum comes from confusion between cause and effect.
A successful player does many things. Some of those things elevated him to the success he has. Other things are effects of being successful for so long.
Not giving a shit is an effect of success. You get this quality from having abundance whether you like it or not. It isn't a teaching point.
Exactly!
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"I approach her because I give a fuck , but in the second she disrespects me she is gone."
Wait a little more than a second. We're not 7 year old kids; what do they do? They'll call some kid their "best friend" one day, then they'll tell the kid that they hate him/her the next day. This is the domain of babies . . . and WOMEN. They typically ride the emotional roller coaster. I really have no idea why grown up men do this . . .
"Not Giving a Fuck" will lead a guy to tell a girl to "fuck off" the moment he senses negativity. He doesn't like how things 'feel' and he doesn't give a fuck about the girl or the interaction so there's no need to stick around. On the other hand, if you care about all of these things, you'll stick it out. . . and explore a little more. A solution can often be found.
Getting pussy is easy.
LE : 1 .I do not give a fuck if I get rejected because every time she is not interested she will show respect.
2. I do give a fuck about her , because my dick will eventually end up in all her holes.
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I don't think the message behind de-tach from the outcome was really geared towards,
don't seek an outcome,
simply don't care if you reach it or not, if you can't reach your goal in mind with a specific target, seek that same outcome with someones else, and de-tach from the need to have one specifics girls validation, it is not important what she thinks of you in the way that you should not base your self esteem on her opinion, how ever you still have to maintain a level of social intelligence, that is not some order from above that being socially retarded and running around insulting girls and taking off your clothes because you don't ''give a shit'' or you are just doing your best to stop ''seeking approval'' somehow = success with women, it doesn't and honestly if you are doing anything or trying to not do anything in order to get someone to like you, then you are actively seeking their approval anyways, the way I see self amusement is just another way the community has come up with to tell guys, have fun and don't take not being every girls prize so personally
^ that
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Most of the bad advice on this forum comes from confusion between cause and effect.
A successful player does many things. Some of those things elevated him to the success he has. Other things are effects of being successful for so long.
Not giving a shit is an effect of success. You get this quality from having abundance whether you like it or not. It isn't a teaching point.
+1 exactly...
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A successful player obviously gives a shit. He is well dressed/ well groomed, speaks and acts accordingly. most likely cultured with a good social circle. ( all signs of giving a shit about himself).
However women are drawn to the persona of "not giving a shit".
The fact that you as a potential mate don't really care if the girls decides to hook up with you or not as you will just find another, is what will draw her in. ( I am sure you already know this Kasabi, with your infinite knowledge of women and pick up...ha!)
If you are a street kid or bum and you approach a woman with a "not give a shit" attitude, its only gonna be seen as that as everything else fits the mold. But you are comparing apples and oranges. What you are stating is completely pointless. This isn't a self help forum It's a pick up forum. More specific, picking up women.
When are you gonna start writing relevant posts. This one is pointless and a waste of everyone's time.
Maybe you should stick to telling people to get intimate with their shampoo bottles.
The fact that you were inspired to write this garbage shows me how much you really need to get laid. If ya want some pointers, send me a PM. I'll be glad to help you out.
I should have known better, i give up discussing pick up with kasabi, is a waste of my time... When 2 adults discuss a subject, the address the subject, and have an adult discussion, that sometimes i wish to engage with you kasabi, the problem and i should know better. Is that what you do is change the message and attack the person(stupid game amog, but is weak), reframe the person you are having the discussion message, therefore, there can never be a discussion, kasabi, also please constructive advise, sometimes you have some good points 10% surrounded by 90% of crap... Do you think that when i go out i sit down on my desk and i write down 10 goals of the things that should happen tonight, my goal is to pick up a girl and get laid, nooooooooo, i go out to have fun, i approach the girl and i say some stupid ass shit, or i do not say anything, i let the interaction flow, i am not outcome dependent on the interaction.. When i text or talk on the phone i go, let me think what to say what is my goal, no it just flow, i do not give a fuck what the girl thinks of me i bring her into my world no the other way around... Dude, Kasabi you have a long way to go, in my opinion your game is weak and makes no sense, but sometimes you have some good points, the problem with your good points, is that is sorrounded by crazy shit that makes no sense, and why it takes you so long to make a point:
Example a normal person: I took the dog out to pee and poop
kasabi: I want to bring to your attention that when you have a canine, with a certificate of a breeder, is on your best interest to the well being of the canine, to be taken out. It would be wise to take the canine out early in the morning and in the evening to release himself.... By doing this the owner and the canine can avoid, an accident in the residence...
Dude get to the fucking point... Fucking women ain't this complicated, why all these dudes here kiss your ass and think you know shit is beyond me..., kasabi, pm sexaddict he is offering you free help you need it, instead of posting confusing meaningless useless crap:
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The ´´dont get a fuck´´ attitude will seduce only the low level womans with little/no self esteem, what kind of woman are you looking for? I am tired of the club drunken girls......
The ´´dont get a fuck´´ attitude will seduce only the low level womans with little/no self esteem, what kind of woman are you looking for? I am tired of the club drunken girls......
Awesome, anything else master troll... So i can write it down... Thanks for your contribution, i am learning a lot thanks again...
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The ´´dont get a fuck´´ attitude will seduce only the low level womans with little/no self esteem, what kind of woman are you looking for? I am tired of the club drunken girls......
The attitude is not the seduction, it is merely a persona. And it's usually the higher level of women that are intrigued by it. Women with high self esteem ( even though most women are incredibly insecure) are the ones that are drawn in by this the most as they are used to the opposite from ( average/unskilled) men.
Are you telling me you don't know anyone from your past or present life that has the "I don't give a fuck" attitude. It's essentially what a "bad boy" personifies. And I am sure you are well aware of a woman's interest in the "bad boy" persona.
You have a lot to learn.
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Its funny. Whenever someone with a bit deeper understanding of what game (life) is gives some deeper advice that could actually help people develop their inner game and overall life quality, he ends up getting shit.
Or rather, people who see themselves as awesome players immediately attack. Most of the time they give useless comments like "Just be yourself" or "Getting laid is easy" or "just grow some balls".
Yeah, it doesnt have to be difficult to get laid if you got your act together or if you meet up with a desperate girl. But if you really wanna understand human interaction for other reasons than just sticking your disco-stick in a random Batcave, there is a lot to be learned. Going deeper is the difference between a master and a random joker on a hotstreak.
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I´m starting to think,that a LOT of people in this forum,still live in theyr mother´s womb.
I´m soooo skilled,i´m soooo good with woman,i dont give a fuck about anythingggg,i BET ONE OF MY FINGER,that this kind of person has FAILED at ANYTHING in theyr life and to avoid to kill them selves they try to ´´compensate´´by joyning a -YOUNG BOYS FORUM- to say in every fucking post they make these sentences (no specific order):
1-I´m so good/natural with woman
2-Your game is sooo weak
3-I´ve fucked this this and that,i fuck #number womans every week
ts funny. Whenever someone with a bit deeper understanding of what game (life) is gives some deeper advice that could actually help people develop their inner game and overall life quality, he ends up getting shit.
no is not funny at all, specially since it contains miss information, this is a pick up forum if you want advise to develop inner game and overall life quality, Brian tracy, antony robbins, the power of now, joel ostee... To seduce a girl the advise is HORRIBLE... i know you are big kasabi fan...
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Or rather, people who see themselves as awesome players immediately attack. Most of the time they give useless comments like "Just be yourself" or "Getting laid is easy" or "just grow some balls"
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No we had an adult discussion, an kasabi attacked first, i encourage you to re-read your post, You locked another threat for no reason, it seems and i may be wrong that you are a kasabi fan, which is fine, to each its on, but the dude has a lot to learn... the comments that you think are useless is on the context that pick up has not be some routine, or complication, it is simple, and sorry but that is the FACT, now, knowing that is is simple you need to WORK ON YOURSELF, noone is disputing that, but the working on yourself does not have to be this complicated like most of kasabis posts.
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Yeah, it doesnt have to be difficult to get laid if you got your act together or if you meet up with a desperate girl. But if you really wanna understand human interaction for other reasons than just sticking your disco-stick in a random Batcave, there is a lot to be learned. Going deeper is the difference between a master and a random joker on a hotstreak.
So what your saying the guys THAT CONSTANTLY HAVE SUCCESS, is because:
1.- the girl most be DESPERATE.
2.- the girl most be drunk(izumi theory)
3.- the girl is insecure
4.- the girl has issues
5.- the game is some disco-stick in a random batcave
6.- a so called "hot streak"
Ezo i am a big fan of your post, but this is very ignorant dude, with all due respect...
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