OK so me and this girl have really only talked at parties and wed always get along spoon alot preety physical i feel shes attracted to me she compliments me and in general gives me IOI's but she has a boyfriend just the other day i run into her at the library and we talk , she was happy to see me she was fiddling with her fingers and there was a great deal of sexual tension in the air i believe , so ive talked to her a bit after that and organised to go the library with her tomorrow i really like her but how should i approach this situation , in terms of attitudes strategies etc

any help is appreciated

Maybe I'm playing the part of the nice guy here, but would you be cool if I gamed a girl you were with? I dunno, that's just me. Aren't there plenty of other girls out there? I mean, the world doesn't runout of beautiful women.

yeah thats the nice guy approach i mean maybe ill just become friends with her hang out and such , but if i was a true PUA id do some evil shit like a boyfriend destroyer

all this evil thing is just BS. if their relationship is solid NOTHING you can do can change that. if you have ever been in a relationship like that you would know what I mean. nothing and no one can touch you two in that phase.

if it can't hold up to some PUA trick you would do them a favour by breaking something that would have broken up anyway.

I agree with Mint. There's no real reason to do that to someone who's got a good thing going for them.

If I were you, I'd totally friend her. If she's pretty hot and socially proofed, then her friendship will most likely raise your DHV. Just because your not fucking her doesn't mean your losing out to something.

In the mean time, game other girls. Like I said, there's never a shortage.

Well, if she cheats on you, you can't handle her = you don't deserve to be with her. Basic math

I agree with all of you to a certain extent. I think you should try game her a bit and if she's reacting positively then the relationship sucks and you're doing them a favor and the bf doesn't deserve her. If she reacts badly and it really seems like they have a good thing going then just stay friends.

Be yourself as she allready likes you. Escalate, escalate, escalate.
Lines are utter bullshit.

Nick names work a treat with boyfriended girls, espeically ones that stick and have a neg-ish feel... i was recently seeing a girl(where i fucked up by sleeping with a girl... in the same bed as her and another girl). This girl was tall and studied hard, first day i met her she'd been checking me out, and once i got to know her slightly she rung me up to tell me her sob stories about her situation with her boyf(they always have one). Anyway, eventually i started negging her with general shit... kino by looking at her rings, and then nick names like Geek, Pointdexter, Weirdy, Dinosaur(she was tall)..... but yeah if you use a nick name frequently. Also, girls with boyfriends will not be turned off if you 'text to frequently' because they wont notice it, so try keep somewhat in their mind, but let them text you here n there.

Do not wreck their home. If you do, then your home will be wrecked as well. You'll see.

thaanks man thats preety relevant to my situation , she calls me boo we text all the time she opens alot of the time so i dunno im just gonna go with the flow