Hi everyone,

I think I'm suffering from mild desentization?
After 2 years of working in the nightlife, every set of women that walk into the club feels like a resource or commodity instead of being sexually interesting to me.
Any way I can spice things back up and get myself amped again? I'm certain I'm not gay.

Some of my friends suggest I take a break from DJing and experience the club environment as a clubber instead of a hired gun. I'm not sure if this will help and I am reluctant to take a break as well because of work obligations.

I'll be thankful for any advice..

Maybe you see women as "customers" or as "funs" or whatever. If you get to know a couple of them maybe you will get intreeged by the female mind I find it more sexual when I get to know a woman and have sex with her, rather than just a one night stand. So i guess this is kind of close as well. Talk to a nice girl that you find interesting and maybe you will get your "I want women" feeling back again.

cheers

Therapy.

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These hos ain't loyal

I was a Bouncer for 10yrs+, and this gave me a very cynical outlook on women, (people as a whole too).

I occasionally go out to clubs to visit friends, and the venue makes the girls unattractive to me, regardless of their looks or personality.

get to know them. Some girls might surprise you with their personalities. It's actually better to see them this way and not put them on a pedestal. Maybe you can use this to your advantage and try to get to know them, since not many men can look past their looks.

thx for all the constructive replies
Yeah.. I guess I'll definitely have to think of people in a different light.
Gonna try a different approach this weekend instead of the usual hit and run.
Probably would build better inner game and passion.