Went for an F close the other night, got the girl past lmr all that stuff. The thing is she was into all the action but wasnt like loud or overly excited or anything. Its weird bc I have never had that before. They got turned on it got me turned on all that. But this girl she wouldnt even talk or say anything. She was enjoying it, but wasnt doing anything much. And while ive had experience with a few girls now, idk if i was not turning her on enough or maybe it was something with her personality type? I eventually made her come, it was quiet though. She is an hb7, with not really much of personality, but i made it through solid comfort and attraction, so idk what exactly this is about. I asked my wing and he said some girls are just emotionless, they are boring and you have to watch out and avoid them. I can definitely see that with this girl and i probably should have done a better job screening her beforehand. Shes not relationship material and not FB material after this, but I was just wondering if you guys had any experience or thoughts on these girls with emotionless sex? Am I messing up or is it the type of girl?

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If you want to screen girls for personality, start screening for it. Have an abundance mind set. There are a lot of women out there.

Ok so before there was foreplay, I qualified the shit out of her and blew her out of the potential gf frame (at least for me, i dont view her as a potential gf now). So what I said was "so i got these things going for me: graduating college, starting my own business, etc. and etc., What do you have that would make me choose u over all the other girls?" the response i got was "i dont have an answer for u" and she doesnt and i realize that now which is good. But i was wondering, maybe this dropped her confidence and she really couldnt let go while we fooled around?

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Some people are just quiet during sex no matter how turned on they are. Some girls are screamers, some claw your back, some get right into it and others dont do much of anything. Nothing you can do about this just hope you dont get one again. Only way to prevent you from getting another is straight up asking you a freak in the bed. Other than that nothing. Just cause a girl is talkative doesnt mean she will loud in the bedroom and just cause she is quiet doesnt mean she will be quiet in the bedroom.

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Thanks man thats along the lines of what i was thinking. I am thinking that maybe u can kinda tell before you get them in bad. Like if my calibration was better i would have saw this one coming. Now that I thinking about it, this girl has a rather boring personality, no real passion for life, and so it shouldnt have been any surprise.

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My best friend is really calm and shy and does not have much going for her but she is a total freak in the sheets...They always say the quiet ones are the craziest where I am from .. lol

I am totally noisy , always flirty, teasing , playful.. guys expect I am a freak in the sheets but I am not at all. I am pretty bad - this guy called me an angel in the sheets haahah that is not a compliment !

But I suppose generally - boring people = boring in bed

crazy people = fireworks in bed

True qualifying should work slightly differently. In saying that she "didn't have an answer," she was refusing to qualify herself. You should have kept pushing with the qualifying questions, until she did see fit to qualify herself to you, in which case you reward her.

Basic example:

You: "You're beautiful, but beauty is common. What are three things that make you different?"
Her: (Feeling the pressure and being forced to become more invested): "Um, I'm kind... Nice... Funny..."
You: (Your reward): Yeah, I can tell you're a kind person and I like that about you.

I don't think her refusal to qualify necessarily had an adverse effect on the interaction but I thought I'd point that out. If she refuses to qualify herself, it doesn't count as qualifying.

Here's another one I do a lot:
You: "What music do you listen to?"
Her: "blah blah blah"
You: "That's cool." (You're giving her approval, because she's invested more in the interaction.)

Hope this helps.

You will often find women like this. Its natural. Some woman are passive. Maybe you have been watching too much porn. Most women are submissive, passive and lazy. You well see this as you get your numbers up.

Noble Casalupus author of HOW TO BE RIDICULOUSLY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE

Thanks bro but i already got past this soft qualifying with her. She passed that one, told me how she could cook all that stuff. This was something newer im trying. I felt she might be gf material, so i pulled out the hard qualifier. It makes me understand now atleast, that she doesn't have what I am looking for. I didnt put all this work in so i could get an average girl.

Thanks everyone else for the comments. I thought that was what was up. Girls are just different in sex.

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I had a similar experience with my ex. Emotionless and didn't communicate in the bedroom. She was really quite good looking, an 8?, maybe slightly overweight, but because of a lack of confidence she lacked any kind of sex appeal. It's just a personality thing.

My girlfriend before this was an absolute animal in the bedroom so the contrast was highlighted.

It's just one of those things that some girls have and some don't have I think. I would just decide how important a certain style of sex life is to you, then only settle with someone that just about there as a long term partner.

Hell yeah! These are the girls i want. Some you can train to a point though. The other girl im currently seeing, was a little wild, but after a few times shes a total freak.

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