Interesting take Kahuna.

The issue for me is not her. It took 3 days and I missed a call from her yesterday. I did not call back yet. The issue for me is her family, mainly kids. I don't think she feels guilt towards her husband at all, she doesn't love him, I think she feels guilty for not giving her kids a happy home. Minus the kids, she'd be gone in a second, and told me as such before I really started putting any effort in. I guess that's why I concluded if not me, someone else, so might as well be me.

The problem is I got attached. It's too emotional for me also. Tired of the roller coaster ride myself. At this point, I think I'd rather take up with her again after the divorce is final, if it ever happens. I don't want to bear the responsibility of causing a broken home either. I was hoping good sex might teach her something she could then teach her doormat hubby and get her through the day. Apparently that hasn't happened yet. But I'm sure I don't know the whole story either, only what she's telling me.

I'm not sure what to do if she calls again.

What do you guys think? I'd be fine if she could just use me to get through the day, but I don't think she can handle it. So I think that leaves dropping her until she's officially single.