This is rediculous. We broke up seven months ago! We were no contact for like three months and I even had a relationship with another girl who I then cheated on with the ex I am talking about!
We still see each other often as we have friends in common and live in a fairly small community. She's actually about ten metres away from me as I write this. I really wanna get over this girl as there is no chance of getting back together and even if there was it would not end well.
So... Tell me how the fuck do I get her off my mind?

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If she was yoru first serious girlfriend then probably will always be there to a point. Anyways only time can really get her off your mind. But what can help is to preoccupy yourself with friends and start hanging out with other girls. The more time you spend doing stuff with friends and other activites the less time you will have to think about your ex. But make sure the activites for awhile she will not be there. Kind of hard to forget someone when there standing across the room at a party hitting on some guy for example. Im sure jealosy and anger would creep into your head of that point in time..

So basically hang out with friends, stay occupied to lessen your time your able to think of her and when you go out to do stuff do your best to see if she will be there. and dont hang out at places you know she goes.

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Ok so I left work and opened a set which made me feel a lot better. Then I went back to work and had a ten minute talk with her in which she invited herself to hang out with me on Friday an physically flirted with me. I know she is hanging around at least one or two other guys, do you think she is just doing this to me to feel good about herself or what?
I'm just going to do my best to distract myself. Keep busy. Meet girls etc
I fall pretty fast and pretty hard so If I find another girl soon I will probably forget about her. And just for infos sake yea she was the first serious girlfriend.

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the exact same situation im in , me and my ex have mutual friends and it fuckin sucks having to go to a party and see her n shit specially cause she always be looking fly , i just remind myself about the shit things about her and that im not an afc .. the more u say it to yourself the better ,jealousy is for the weak, dont put urself threw that man as hard as it is i just try to act like im not phazed , the more and more you get control , of course takes time. i like you realized there isnt much of a chance of getting back together , and even tho if we did it would end badly , its not worth the pain u might feel in the long run.. dont let her flirt with you or seduce or watever man .. you should take control after all your the man u dont needa let her lay her attention/comfort seeking on you..

"anger can ruin all good practices and it is not soon forgotten. it is attractive neither in the present nor when viewed later as something belonging to the past. when anger begins burning out of control like a raging fire , protect yourself and do not let it consume you.like a thief this fire will take away everything you have. there is nothing worse that anger"

i like that anger quote. that resonates well with me.

and i am actually feeling alot better from the other day but i would still prefer if she just were off my mind as although im not upset or anything shes still sitting in the back of my mind which is just frustrating.
i think i need to do my best to put myself out there with other girls and actually give them a chance. and also remember the bad times and not only the good.

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its a buddha quote if u were interested
.. im in the same boat at u buddy , i dont know if it will take more time or a new girl or watever but at the very least remind urself .. whose the man . whose the boss . whose not phazed ? even if u are just act that until it sticks , it works . let me kno how u go .

The only way for me to get over something like this is surround myself with other women. It is easier to see that there are more fish in the sea if you can feel and touch them.

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do something that you think you will never do. try being a nerd (with good looks) or find a job abroad. works for me.

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Yea I need a new hobbie so I don't dwell on this, but if I'm gunna be honest with myself I get engrossed with girls pretty quickly after I meet the
So I should meet a few new girls. Do more approaches etc so in that sense ezo I think I'm a bit the same.

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This is a long dead post. Much like my need for my ex, or a viral marketing ploy.

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