Obviously you should wear a condom, but what if you don't have one and do anal and you get some nasty shit or she tells you she's on the pill and lies, or your condom breaks? This worries me. Guys, do you actually ask the chick "hey, you don't have stds, right?" I've never done oral- I know I don't have stds, but I can't be sure about her.

If you don't have one and you shag her and you get an STD it's your problem. Always carry one when you go out, better safe than sorry.

I have actually asked a girl after sex if she had an STD haha. But chances are, if she does have one she might not know about it.

Don't be an idiot, just take a rubber. But remember to actually use it, countless times I've had one but forgot to use it in my semi-drunken state. And trust me, trying to get a random girl to take the day after pill the next day is fucking hard.

Always bring your own. If she has some, don't trust them. Try a few different brands and types and find one that you like and works for you and buy a super huge jumbo value pack and carry them with you everywhere! then if you ever need one you have one. Done and Done.

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a super huge jumbo pack? to my knowledge, condoms do have an expiration date and after that date they are not worth using- chances of breaking are higher. Plus I don't want condoms laying around when my parents could see. I find it weird going out wherever you go with a condom in your pocket, I wish the girls would provide them.

If you do anal without condom with random chicks you deserve std for your own stupidity.
Seems like your biggest problem is to carry a condom in your wallet etc. This is not that big of a problm, trust me.

dude, how old are you? grow some balls!

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I'm 18? I don't have balls, because I'm cautious and don't want to catch nasty diseases? The heat and pressure the condom gets from being in your wallet and sat on throughout the day deteriorates it. Sex is better without condom, no? My question in OP was how do you find out if she does have something, straight up ask her?

Well if a girl is wanting sex... shes not going to say shes got anything, she probably doesnt know if she has and what girl would ever admit that? seriously dude?

When I said grow some balls i meant, so what if your parents see them. Hide a few in ya room, say you got them in a safe sex pack at college or whatever. Tell them your sexually active if they arnt the religious type. They can't have anything against you.

And dude, always wrap up. It may feel better without, but you cannot fuck a girl without a johnny without getting to know her IMO.

1. She could have anything
2. She may be crazy
3. You could get her up the duff

There's also the point of HPV. This is a virus that pretty much everyone has a strain of, they don't really test for it, but it can cause genital warts, and also increases the chances of vaginal, penile and throat cancer. The more people you sleep with the more exposed you will be to it, affecting not only yourself but any future partners.

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Girls are crazy at times. When they want you they'll tell you what you want to hear.

Actually you are the opposite of cautios - in this whole thread you are constanly looking for reason not to use condom

p.s

If a girl says shes on the pill, or as an implant etc...

WRAP THE FUCK UP!!!!!

If they are putting out that easy, especially for a ONS they probs have something. Or atleast Herpis.

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You give her an std test right there on the spot.. 0.o

Do you honestly think a girl is going to say " yea I have an std, do you still wanna shag?" Like what are you looking for. Everything you do in life involves some sort of risk. Even crossing the street, if you are that afraid, then stay celibate.

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