This is something I am finding hard to pull off.

At the moment, things are good. I have a fuck-buddyl in London (who I am now actually trying to shake off), another in London who I was seeing for a bit in the autumn, who has recently got back in contact trying to persuade me to come up to see her again.

Down here in Brighton, I have been on two dates in the last two nights and I have two other girls who I expect to be fixing something up soon with.

However, last night, the girl I was on a date with accused me of being a player. I didn't really talk about any other girls or talk to other girls while I was out with her so I don't understand where she got this impression.

As a whole though, how is it possible to maintain MTLR without being hit with the "Player" tag? It baffles me. I hear people on here discussing MLTR, but in my experience.... girls will run a mile from this kinda guy.

Any tips gratefully appreciated

Being called a "player" is just a shit test. Talking to lots of women is natural and healthy behavior. Haters gonna hate.

Incidentally, my experiences are very different than yours. There are a lot of women who are just fine with non-monogamous relationships.

-Wolf

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