Greetings to my fellow PUA's,

My name's Bravo and I'm new to the PUA scene. I'm a 27 year old black man, live in Massachusetts and work in banking. I recently ended a 4 year relationship and am looking to hit the ground running. I'm not sure where to start, but I'm an eager learner. I'm looking for advice on the steps necessary to succeed in beginning the game.

I guess I can start by assessing my weaknesses. I'm not bad with women per se, I've been with more than 30, but I still feel insecure about my game. I feel like I've just been lucky the past 10 years and gotten by on my looks alone. I suppose I'm mostly afraid of rejection and make excuses not to speak to attractive women when I go out. Also, because I've achieved more success with women than most of my peers, they assume I'm some kind of lothario - even women. I feel like I'm upholding a reputation I don't deserve, and my fear of rejection would expose my incompetence to women and my friends.

I'm looking for the competence, confidence and charisma to have relationships with the quality women all men look for. Any advice would truly be appreciated and I look forward to mastering this hindering area of my life.

Cheers,

Bravo

First off, beware that you will find far more weaknesses if you look at them consistently. Instead find one thing that you call weakness and realize that it's just another chance for you to improve the skills that you already have. But find only one and get some advice on it and FOLLOW IT! Don't think about it just do it. If it works then great but make sure you thoroughly test it out. Focus on one aspect at a time and over the period of weeks you will find a great increase in your skills. The guy who helped me was Carlos Xuma so check him out. I personally endorse his Approach Women Now 2 program, it's gold. Just Google the name.

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