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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:03 am 
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Ok guys, basically, I've been in a LTR for a while so my PUA is really messed up. I've always had decent natural game, as long as the girl is below a certain point on the HB scale.

I just recently got a Job somewhere. The job is a really chill job and you have a whole lot of time to just talk to your coworkers. There's a girl that I just met today that I'm interested in gaming for an F-close. She's REALLY outgoing, talkative. This girl that I'm referring to has been working here for a while, the only problem is, she's a Junior in high school. She's 17, I'm 18. I'm in my freshman year of college, I got to a community college. I'm not sure if her being a junior makes a difference, and if that difference is good or bad. I only talked to her for about 10 minutes since when she was starting, I was getting off.

Our first interaction:
(She was complaining about how somebody put the money in the register)
Me: Ohh.. So you're one of those OCD types, huh? (smiling, of course)
Her: Haha yeah. I just hate when people mess up money
Me: What's your name?
Her: HB7
Me: Ohh ok.

Manager walked in so I stopped the conversation. The manager is cool and wouldn't have really minded but the manager started speaking to me, and I didn't want to be rude. This is where the manager let me know that I could go.

As I was grabbing my stuff, she called me over and said:

Her: I have a really stupid question
Me: Hahaha ok......
Her: What's your name?
Me: Wow.. That is a stupid question hahaha you can call me _my name_ (I know, should have been funny here. It didn't pop up until afterward.)
Her: Ohh ok.

I don't really like to give too much effort into keeping a conversation going when somebody just says ohh... or ok... I see that as a convo killer.

Me(to everybody): I gotta see who I'm working with tomorrow. I hope it's not anybody boring.
Her: Well, if I'm not working then you'll be bored.
Me: ...you know you're not the only fun person that works here... right? lol
Her: Yeah I know. I'm fun though!

Manager says something to me again, I walk to the other side of the counter (This is not fast food. The job is really chill, and most of the day the co-workers are just standing there talking to each other)

As I'm walking out, I tell my friend that also works there bye. I walk over to the two girls and tell them that it was nice meeting them and I should see them around. The girl that I'm interested in said, "You too. I hope we get to work together soon!" I said, "Hopefully." then proceeded out the door. Since she's in high school, I don't think she works during the weekdays at all. So this weekend may be my only chance to get her number or something because I called off next weekend and the weekend after that for family reasons.

What I wanted to ask, is how should I approach this situation? ANY tips, routines, anything would help. I just checked my schedule, and we work together tomorrow and sunday also. Don't assume that I know something and not post it. If you have ANY tips, even if it's the most beginner tips that you've ever heard, there's a chance that I don't know that so post it.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:28 am 
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Things look fine so far. Why not just get to know her a little better and build some comfort next time you work with her, then suggest the two of you go out for coffee afterward? And remember the golden rule of attraction: fucking touch her.

Keep it simple, keep it cool. Also, I hope you're not still in a LTR.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 1:30 am 
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Things look fine so far. Why not just get to know her a little better and build some comfort next time you work with her, then suggest the two of you go out for coffee afterward? And remember the golden rule of attraction: fucking touch her.

Keep it simple, keep it cool. Also, I hope you're not still in a LTR.
Thanks Snarg!

Sounds simple enough. We have 15 minute breaks, so maybe I can spend that time getting to know her. How do I ask her out for coffee or something (There's a starbucks right across the street) without it being weird? lol

I'm good with Kino. I'm a really touchy guy. lol I've always been, even since before I started reading into PUA.

EDIT: Another BIG question I had. Being a co-worker makes it a lot easier to get stuck in the friend zone because a lot of females actually say that they wouldn't date their co-workers and stuff like that. How can I make sure that I don't get stuck in that "zone" and let her know that I'm attracted to her without being AFC about it?

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 2:50 am 
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Yes, those breaks would be an excellent time to escalate. Since they're so short, if you play your cards right you can have her looking forward to them for the sole purpose of being able to spend time with you. Make her breaks fun; make her laugh, touch her, and make it an absolute pleasure for her to go to work.

It's pretty convenient that Starbucks is right across the street. All it takes is a quick "I want some coffee. Let's go to Starbucks" and you're good to go.

It's true that some females prefer not to date co-workers. But we're all human, so do you really think she will be able to resist the temptation if you do a good enough job with attracting her? No way in hell. Flirt with her and touch her, and your intentions will be known without even having to say anything.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 2:57 am 
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Yes, those breaks would be an excellent time to escalate. Since they're so short, if you play your cards right you can have her looking forward to them for the sole purpose of being able to spend time with you. Make her breaks fun; make her laugh, touch her, and make it an absolute pleasure for her to go to work.

It's pretty convenient that Starbucks is right across the street. All it takes is a quick "I want some coffee. Let's go to Starbucks" and you're good to go.

It's true that some females prefer not to date co-workers. But we're all human, so do you really think she will be able to resist the temptation if you do a good enough job with attracting her? No way in hell. Flirt with her and touch her, and your intentions will be known without even having to say anything.
Thanks man.

This helped a lot. Also, seeing as she's a Junior in high school and this is probably her first job, I don't think she's at the "Not dating co-workers" stage yet. lol Thanks again for the "Let's go to starbucks, I want some coffee" response. I was over-thinking it. I was thinking that I have to "ask her out" instead of just casually slipping that in, in a middle of a conversation... I'll definitely let you know how it goes tomorrow... Any more tips?

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 3:09 am 
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There's really not much else to it other than that. It looks like you know what should be done at this point. Just make sure you let me know how it turns out, though. Good luck.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 8:28 am 
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girls say yes, and girls say no, you are just at the start man, don't invest into something that has not invested back for you, it will only end up a big let down, start escalating and screening girls faster then this, you had the perfect chance and did not take it, but since you work with her you will have a billion other perfect chances, it is as simple as

''you know you seem really cool to talk to, I'd love to hang out with you next week a grab a coffee, when are you free? (or maybe just ask her out on a date and call it a date, you might want to keep it casual since you have to see her at work, but realistically the cat has to leave the bag eventually and chances are if she is not interested after 1 hour of talking to you, she is most likely not interested at all), you are really phyching yourself out here for no reason, most girls will just say yes to a number close and date or w/e, as long as you are positive and they feel good around you, they will just agree, then if they are not romantically interested in you, they will just flake out and find an excuse before the date over and over and just not show up,

you have to learn to play the game better, some girls say yes, some girls say no, go screen alot of girls, find the ones that respond the best, and then get to work

ask yourself what you want from a girl, and screen her to see if she offers what you want, if she doesn't onto the next one


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