So, when you know the girl is attracted, and you got a date with her, what would you say is the main objective of the 1st date? and how to progress. I also need some ideas on what activity would be good for a 1st and a 2nd date :/

Thx

I'm sure everyone has their own opinion since this isn't really a structured right vs wrong type of thing. But for me, the first date is only a few hours long, takes place somewhere casual like a coffee house, and is used for the two of us to get to know each other and ensure there's chemistry. The second date is to show what a fun guy I am, so I always choose something that she probably doesn't do too often and I have the chance for some kino. Maybe a concert with a band the two of you like, or go see a professional comedian if one is in town, or if the weather is nice go to a park.