Wassup people!

My name is Lee, or (because the name was already taken) Shin Lee

20 yo dude from the netherlands.

i've never been bad with women but not great either.
let's say I have my moments. I just came out of a 9 month relationship with my ex and I want to take my skills to the next level!

I hope I can learn some cool stuff here

Ahoy!

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Arrrrrrrr matey!

Welcome! You're definitely in the right place to take your game up to the next level. What's are your skills like right now?

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"I'm not a player, I just know how to quickly and efficiently remove a woman from my life when I figure out that she isn't good for me. If everyone has a soulmate out there somewhere, then I'm on a mission to find mine"

Average I guess. I just read The Game (of course) I heard about this stuff some time ago. when a friend of mine picked it up. but now I wanna know what I'm doing when I'm talking to a girl.

In high school picking up girls seemed kind of easy. I was one of the cool kids so girls already knew me before I knew them. But after high school I realised I was kind of shy to talk to random girls in a bar or club and that I didn't really know what to say. I got better since then but now I want to make some real improvement. (still I might chicken out sometimes...) I'm know reading Mystery's - The Pick Up artist and I have Bought Gamblers - The Natural. So I have got some decent lecture to read and try in the field. I got one problem in the field, I drink a lot (heh..) sometimes it's good thing but not always. so we'll see.

Time to get some improvement!

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Arrrrrrrr matey!

I feel ya man. I used to drink a lot myself and truthfully, I was pulling mostly one night stands that would start texting and calling me non stop the next day so I laid off the sauce and don't drink anywhere near as much as I used to. I still have a few issues when talking to girls but I at least have a girlfriend (just barely 2 days ago) now and a couple of dates on the side. A lot of my improvement has been because I forced myself through the pain of experiencing things in a different mind state. In my opinion, drinking is different for everybody, but definitely try things for a week without drinking at all. If your friends pressure you into drinking, then make up an excuse like your on antibiotics and can't or something along those lines. Give it a try and see how it feels. For most there is a good median between drunk and sober that is comfortable but you have to work at finding it. Hope that helps some brother and again, welcome!

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"I'm not a player, I just know how to quickly and efficiently remove a woman from my life when I figure out that she isn't good for me. If everyone has a soulmate out there somewhere, then I'm on a mission to find mine"