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PostPosted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 8:17 pm 
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Cognizant1.... You need to stop hating on Other people's advice, Different people use different techniques, Some use Direct, Some use Indirect, BUT they both work if you do it right.

Pikeman85.... You go in there everyday, So you have time, instead off a one off meeting. Have a conversation with her, like normal for a couple of days, get to know her a little, Then see if she wants to hang out Because you and your friends are going out and wondered if she wanted to come along.. Something casual, then game from there.

Cognizant1 Thanks for the English Lesson, Same time next week?
Right, telling him to be more assertive is hating on another's advice.

I haven't the time nor energy to teach retards how to use proper grammar and diction, so search for a mentor/tutor elsewhere.


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By "I haven't been alpha as much lately", I meant I haven't been going out and hitting on women as much, and I haven't followed as much of the lifestyle stuff lately.

I'm still balls to the wall in most things and haven't had any trouble escalating recently. Also, my work life has improved TREMENDOUSLY.

Cognizant is both right and wrong. I should always strive to be more ballsy. And the fact of the matter is that I SHOULD just hit on her. I don't actually have anything to lose. This thread is basically just me being afraid of rejection.


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A true alpha male would see no utility in negging, nor would he be so indirect to engage her on an opinion. Think about this...if the guy was a true alpha why would he need someone else's validation to his opinion? An Alpha knows what he likes, knows what he wants, and goes out into the world and gets it. He'd make a B line right for it having no time for bs games and tactics. An Alpha male is confidant, he does not let his inner voice of "You aren't good enough, smart enough, good looking enough..." rule him. The crap Neil Strauss, Mystery, and others espouse is full of Beta whackness.
Cog, you have made valid points, but this young man is on a journey. I gave valid information, that not only works, but will build confidence in his own ego. She will respond in a positive manner, I only gave him a starting point, from there he must escalate on his own. He was looking for advice that works, I gave it to him.

Thank you for your remarks. Good Luck

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Ya, be indirect and 'insult' her...

Another Neil Strauss brainwashed sucker.


Dude, get real, be direct, ask her out, end of story none of this bullshit about negging and using indirect tactics which only make you ironically look beta.
Is this not you disregarding his technique, which may well work for him and many others? Everyone has different techniques, Respect them.....

No-one values your opinion as seen by your reputation, So you might as well fuck off this forum.

Bye.


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...Should I take this as her flirting, or just trying to get a tip? These were all carry out orders - she never waited on me in a traditional sense.
Hi Pikeman.

Girls flirt all the time with men from an evolutionary perspective. Mostly, it isn't intentional. Their bodies are wired that way. The gist is, girls bait men to show interest. When this happens and a man tries to "sell himself", he gets disqualified for many reasons.

AFCs usually get blown off the first 4 minutes. But when past that 4 minute mark and she continues to show body signals that indicate interest, you're ATTRACTING her. There are many cues to look out for. For me, the cue that I look out for is when she looks down a lot while face-to-face with me. This means that she is submitting herself and finds me dominant. Women are attracted to dominant (not domineering) men.

If you want to know more about these body signals, Google this free pdf.

Non-verbal behavior as courtship signals: the role of control and choice in selecting partners

The researchers are: Grammer, Kruck, Juette, and Fink

Good luck brother. :twisted:

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...I'm still balls to the wall in most things and haven't had any trouble escalating recently. Also, my work life has improved TREMENDOUSLY...
Brother, if you're doing well tremendously in an area of your life right now, you are dominant (alpha) in that area. This has many benefits that girls subconsciously pick up on that attracts them to you. Here are some of them:

(1) You're more confident and your body language will show it without you even trying.

(2) Your testosterone levels shoot up the roof. Women can sense this subconsciously and they'll flirt with you more. Your sexually attractiveness has increased a lot compared to the last time that you're just going through the motions of your work life.

Personally, before I studied PUA and I had no structured game, I attract girls like flies when I was doing well in an area of my life. For one, when I closed a deal and got promoted, I ended up fucking 3 girls everyday for 6 months without chasing them. Take advantage of your alpha success in your work life and spill this over into your sexlife. :twisted:

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Oh I agree with being overt, and direct in certain environments. Even perhaps this one - the problem is the time for EXTREME overt directness is a bit past. I can't just go wandering in there and say "you're ADORABLE!". She was more of a girl I wouldn't have noticed except for her over the top friendliness. She was cute, definitely but I was only thinking about lunch and it took me by surprise.


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Oh I agree with being overt, and direct in certain environments. Even perhaps this one - the problem is the time for EXTREME overt directness is a bit past. I can't just go wandering in there and say "you're ADORABLE!". She was more of a girl I wouldn't have noticed except for her over the top friendliness. She was cute, definitely but I was only thinking about lunch and it took me by surprise.
I really think your testosterone level is up through the roof brother and you're making girls wet their panties. The issue now is how to fuck close more efficiently. :twisted:

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Ya, be indirect and 'insult' her...

Another Neil Strauss brainwashed sucker.


Dude, get real, be direct, ask her out, end of story none of this bullshit about negging and using indirect tactics which only make you ironically look beta.
Is this not you disregarding his technique, which may well work for him and many others? Everyone has different techniques, Respect them.....

No-one values your opinion as seen by your reputation, So you might as well fuck off this forum.

Bye.
You sound shook by my comments, go tend to your wounded ego. You just got your face rocked by a TRUE Alpha, the ones you've typically only read about.

Congrats, now get out of my way child.


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Alpha does not mean Dick, Cognizant, he's only trying to defend me. Play nice.


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A true alpha male would see no utility in negging, nor would he be so indirect to engage her on an opinion. Think about this...if the guy was a true alpha why would he need someone else's validation to his opinion? An Alpha knows what he likes, knows what he wants, and goes out into the world and gets it. He'd make a B line right for it having no time for bs games and tactics. An Alpha male is confidant, he does not let his inner voice of "You aren't good enough, smart enough, good looking enough..." rule him. The crap Neil Strauss, Mystery, and others espouse is full of Beta whackness.
Cog, you have made valid points, but this young man is on a journey. I gave valid information, that not only works, but will build confidence in his own ego. She will respond in a positive manner, I only gave him a starting point, from there he must escalate on his own. He was looking for advice that works, I gave it to him.

Thank you for your remarks. Good Luck
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