Hello guys. Well here is my story. I used the unbrakable opener (when you say to the HB that you have a girlfriend, who is alike the HB, who is having her birthdays in a few days and that you want to make her a present, and you are asking her opinion) to a barwoman 4 weeks ago. I haven't been to the club all these days. Until yesterday, i went out, but when i saw her, i didn't talk to her (because i believed i shouldn't). She was looking at me all the time, but i didn't talk to her. So what is your opinion on that? Should i have talked to her or not? What are your steps?

Let's make a guide for it, lets make it professional lads!!

Come on guys!! Not even one? I need your help because i intend to go to this club this Saturday again.. Help me!!

Yes you should have talked to her. You can't bring a relationship forward if you aren't talking to her.

At least she think you didn't talk to her because you have a girl friend, not because you weren't sure if talking to her were going to decrease the possibility of you two sleeping together.

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Defo you should talk to her! I mean she aint going getting in your bed if you ignore her 24/7.. Ignoring is a good thing! its the push in push/pull, bud if you push to much you loose!

Anyway a good opener specialy made for barchicks?
Why would you? I mean she just a chick, not much of a difference of the rest of the girls there.. espect she might be more proffesional in her job!

Last time i tried i just opened with a question about a wearing a specific shirt to that club! I told her most people would find it offending and asked what she was thinking about it!

This is good because it involves you, the way you are and think, her, her opinion and the club she works in! Ofc the timing should be right! i mean if its busy like hell, she aint going to talk for long!

Anyway perhaps its something for you, gave me atleast free drinks:D

GL and keep up the good work!

Ok i should have talked her.. I get it!!

Now the difficult part: My anxiety is whether i should approach her the next time and say to her: " Hi i am sorry i didn't greet you the last time i was here because it was too crowdy..( blah blah), a compliment and then continue with this "Did you know I read this study on bartenders, and apparently if a girl is a bartender with blonde hair and tall then she's extra conversational, loves chatting to cute guys, and sometimes she tells lies to men, tell me is that true? Because I think it is.."

OR should i try this one, skipping the part where i am saying sorry for not greeting you? "Hi my gf loved my gift i made to her..( blah blah), a compliment and then this " Did you know I read this study on bartenders, and apparently if a girl is a bartender with blonde hair and tall then she's extra conversational, loves chatting to cute guys, and sometimes she tells lies to men, tell me is that true? Because I think it is..".

All opinions are welcome!

Well you should defo not BE or SAY you are sorry for ignoring her!

It only means you have thought about it and about her! And when she sees that, she knows where she stands.. and she might not be so interested anymore.. or see will play with you!

Thats just my opinion tho, Just start talk like nothing happend!
thats my taught atleast