Hey there everyone,
Long Post, please read it all and comment!
So this happened yesterday, I was going to my dentist in an elevator and this smoking hot blonde chick(think top-model type, I'd say she was 5'9, as I'm 5'10) entered the elevator and stood beside me. I was going to the 8th floor and she eventually got off on the 6th floor. Unfortunately, I did not talk to her at that time because I was involved in an important phone call at that time. During and after my appointment, I could not stop thinking about this chick.
Here's the thing, I going to have my dentist again this coming Wednesday. I'm thinking about approach her floor after my appointment. This is what I think, I had caught a glimpse of her last name so I'm planning to head to her floor and ask her front desk whether there is a Dr. xyz(her) on this floor. Then I will ask if she is in, if she is there and she comes up then I will have to "direct approach her" right there with I'm sure a lot of people around. >>But if my target isn't there at the time of my visit, I was thinking of leaving her a note. I don't know if this sounds determined or desperate so I would need your opinion guys.
I am thinking something like this in the note:
[
Hey Ms xyz,
I wanted to tell you that I think you're absolutely adorable but I couldn't find you.
If you're fun and friendly, we should do coffee/ice cream, you do like ice cream, right?
P.s. I like to laugh and smile, hope you do too.
P.p.s Please return my pen!
RaginAsianC (my email)
(date of message)
]
I would just give this to the front desk with a pen clipped to it. I don't have time to wait for her return and I'm not in that area a lot.
Advice will be greatly appreciated if you can answer these questions for me:
1) Would I come off desperate or creepy doing any of these?
2) What are some warm-up exercises I can do to pump myself up for scenario 1 ?(because I don't want to flushed and be intimidated with all those people)
3) Any ideas,comments for the note part, should I leave one ??
I feel I have only about 5 minutes of my time and a cheap pen to lose, any comments/feedback will be greatly appreciated! thanks!
Relaxxxx buddy. That's the first step. Yes she is gorgeous and we all know what that does to us men, but you have to CONVINCE yourself that it isn't a big deal.
As others have probably mentioned (I don't read other posts, I only focus on the OP and his question/concern) you are showing way too much interest. If she is a 9 or 10, she gets that needy attention ALL THE TIME.
You need to put yourself into her world for a second and imagine what that is like.
My mentor, Arash Dibazar, just put up an amazing video which helps you understand her perspective. If you are looking for something to "pump you up", this gets pretty damn close.
CHAT
