Basically when I'm talking to girls they want more pics from me cause I only have one on my account. And I end up looking bad cause I'm saying stuff like "I just opened up my account and I'll be posting some soon" And they end up pressuring me about it. The reason I don't post up a lot is cause I'm insecure about my image - like I dong think I look good with sunglasses on and the second thing to that is my eye glasses and I think girls we'll think I'm a nerd of I wear my eye glasses.

(2) Second question: I've actually got good feedback from posting my pic I'm just afraid of ruining it. This girl told me, "Your so handsome" and followed me on twitter. And she was REALLY pretty. It's just hard to believe if that is really an IOI or just her playing a hold on me (girls hv done this to me before, before I lost a lot of weight so that's what I'm used too).

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Really? This is your sticking point? All of the problems you listed have simple, easy solutions. First, solicit several female opinions on whether or not you look good in glasses. If people don't like your glasses, then either get new glasses or get contacts.

Use this (Okcupid's MyBestFace): http://www.okcupid.com/mybestface

It's an easy way to figure out what pictures work better than others. Also, go out and take some pictures with your friends (preferably female friends). Read this article as well ("Don't be ugly by accident"): http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/dont- ... -accident/

-Wolf

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