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PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:08 pm 
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How do you make a shy girl call you?

I mean, I know that she likes me but the thing is that so many guys are hitting on her that i might lose her. But then again, i don't wanna look like any other guys who would call her and ask her out. Quite a dillema i am having here.

Should I just ask her out like any other guys and do all that cubes and ESP and stuff like that to make it work?

Or do you have any suggestions?

I want to be the prize.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:18 pm 
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u put a gun to her head


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 05, 2012 1:44 pm 
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give more details about the girl and your relationship towards her!

Also if she really is a shy girl, I doubt she gets asked out so much as you think.


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um... i am 18 years old, final year at this private dormitory schools,
on the other hand, she is 17 years old, a grade below me.
oh and i haven't had any conversations with her while other guys are going crazy after her. i just didn't want myself looking like any other guys.

since it is a dorm school it is strictly forbidden to have relationships with girls but we do it anyways :wink:

yeah, guys probably haven't asked her out 'much' but still, she is often the target for prank calls and stuff like that. she's usually the one on spotlight but i doubt she enjoys it

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You have to really ramp up interest for a girl to call you first.. However what you can do that other guys are not doing is to simply call her and have a 30-45 min conversation. Don't ask her out, just enjoy the conversation and let it sit. I guarantee she will be calling you the next day or the one after.

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You take charge. Never wait for things to fall into your lap.
I agree. When you want something you go get it. You don't wait until it magically comes to you.

Approach her, talk to her, neg her, make fun of her because she get attention for other guys.

Spark the attraction, build it and keep it tense.

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One, she's shy because she's afraid of rejection. So how can she call you if she's thinking that you might reject her, hmm?

Two, there has to be a very strong reason why she has to call you. Others have already given you excellent advice on how to do this.

Three, it seems to me that you're hiding in the safety of the, "I want to be the prize" rationale to mask your fear of rejection.

If you want to be the prize so she'll call you first, then you'll have to approach her first to show (not tell, but show) that you are the prize.

So why should you be the prize compared to the other guys? I'll answer that for you. You'll have to make her feel good every time she sees you. And you'll have to be better than all of the other guys who are hitting on her.

Makes sense? Still not clear?

Read the newbie PUA materials here. Once you have mastered those, the girls will be asking for your number and asking you out on dates. If you become really good in making women feel good, they'll even ask you if they can sleepover your place. They'll make up reasons to have sex with you without them looking like a slut. You'll have to respect that. Don't make them look cheap. Let them feel very special and unique. That way, they'll be the ones making the calls; not you. :twisted:

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holy fuck that cleared everything up for me. thanks a lot, really.

Shit, i realized that being the prize is so fucking irritating.

I am just going to do the deangelo stuff on her, take two steps forward and one step back.


Maybe she will like me, maybe she won't

but so what?

she's not the only girl out there.

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