\\\\\\\Sat 3rd March \\\\

Second night out with Jackal and Yes Man. They had both been gaming during the day, so I met up with them at 7ish.

Again for me, wasn't really about getting results with # or kiss close, it was about getting over AA and having the ability to approach any women with ease.

We hanged out around near the station for a bit just doing some approaches. It was great experience and I felt less AA when doing these. After about 6 or so approaches each including one # from a hb6. We scooted further into town while making more approaches as we went, Jackal was great and really pushing me outside my comfort zone. He would see a hb, and would say "do it, fucking do it" and I would go do it. Felt great coming away from another approach.

We headed to a bar near the lanes, usually busy but was quiet for some reason tonight. We chilled out for a bit in the bar, Jackal said "2 bar women who were not serving, go talk to them, invite them both to your birthday next weekend and # close them both"

Wow I thought, both hb8.

I went up to them both
ME: Ladies, It's my birthday next sat and your both invited (big smile)
HB1: I think I am probably working here next sat
HB2: Me too
ME: What's your names?
HB1: Lauren
ME: (Handshake) Nice to meet your Lauren
HB2: Lucy
ME: (Handshake) Nice to meet your Lucy
ME: You girls seem cool, & I would really like you to come, so it's in soot pub, come after work - will be great to see you.

And ejected, I think maybe I should of focused my attentions on one of them, rather than both.

Chilled outside the pub in the smoking area for a bit before heading further into town. Yes Man left us as he had been out a while, so me and Jackal continued on.

We ended up in a bar near the seafront which had tones of sets to approach. Settled for this 5-6 set with had this hb9 sitting down, I sat down next to her and said something along the lines
ME: Wow, you are absolutely stunning, is your hair real?
HB: Yes it is
ME: Wow, isn;t that something
ME: What's your name? (handshake)
HB: Lucy
ME: I am worldy, nice to meet you

ME: Began commenting on her friends, who's birthday is it, just general fluff talk. We got on really well. Got plenty of ioi's. I went to #close but she flaked and said she had a bf. Continued for a bit, and then ejected.

I went back in, 20mins later. Long comes the AMOG, Rugby player, but clearly in the friends zone.
I told hb9 to introduce me, don't be rude. She did. Then they had a little conversation and I felt Fu3k1ng BETA!!! I sat in the middle of them both talking. I thought fu3k this, I broke into conversation when I could and began talking to him and ignoring her. She felt left out, I think I left her out a little too much though. I ejected again shortly after.

Really I should of escalated by taking her elsewhere in the bar sooner.


That night I think I approached about 15sets which I am so happy with as before this weekend, I had done next to none. Just proves what you can do if you get out there and do it.

Thanks to Jackal once again, he really pushed me out my comfort zone.

That's fucking cool Worldly, you really went in and did your shit bro. And trust me, soon all that AA will vanish, and only the rush of the dice roll will be there. Keep having fun dude.
CH*

Zero to Hero – DRAGON. part 1

JACKEL,VOLCANO,TERENCE, DON JUAN,SLICK

After having amazing time sarging with the gang last week I thought I could carry this energy with me throughout the week. I was wrong, In the train station before uni I see this beautiful girl standing there between a crowd of people. I knew if JACKEL was there I would have gone to her without any hesitation, but he wasn’t there. So I waited for about 5 mins to build enough courage to approach. When I did approach her I said “ hey I think you are really cute so I had to come over and say hi”. She didn't say anything but just gave me a blank face.

After that I didn't approach till Saturday. When I met up with VOLCANO and TERRANCE. Both these guy knew exactly what they were doing. Even though the way that they do it is slightly different, they received positive feedback from the females. On the other hand I was stuck in this fucking zombie mode where I just went into a set smelling of defeat., and the women notice that and thats the reason I didn’t last more than 3 min.

After a four hour session with the boys I went home with a massive headache and no numbers. It was 2 clock in the morning and I kept replaying those approaches in my head, then I saw all the mistakes. So I wrote a game plan of what to do in town when I see a set. 12 oclock and am in town calling VOLCANO for back up. While waiting for VOLCANO I approach two girls with some indirect openers from internet. “what year is it” and “How much does a polar bear weigh” . These openers were funny but I didn't get much success with them . Thats why I decided to go back to direct openers for the next 2 hours before we met up with JACKEL.

Sorry its almost 2 clock in the morning am tried . ill try write up part two later this week

Look Son, don’t make a show of yourself.

No-one, with the possible exception of you, is intimidated here. I was just trying to shorten your learning curve by explaining to you that I have seen people go through this process in a similar manner to yourself and ultimately end up disappointed.

To be fair to Jackal, he gave a reasonable response and explained you are not trying to seduce women, just be accepted in society and raise your confidence… that’s cool, and if he knows that, then keep your head up and best of luck with your self esteem.

You, on the other hand, have embarrassed yourself, the ineloquence and reactivity you have displayed leave me in no doubt why you are in the position you are in.

That said, I have no need to kick you when are so clearly down, so best of luck with your ‘d.a.t.e.s’ and with the rest of your life.

On final word of advice though… watch your mouth. It is unbecoming and you wouldn’t dare talk to someone in real life like that, so don’t be a desperate keyboard warrior your whole life dude.

Xxxxxxx

Saturday with Don Juan and Volcano

BO = Blowout
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Excuse me?

Nothing wrong with my self-confidence my friend, and if you think I am demonstrating insecurity because I showed support to someone who has helped me... then you are very confused individual.

Its not about being "accepted in society" either. I am learning direct street approach, not societal acceptance.

Captain of my football team, captain of my cricket team, huge circle of friends, soon to be running my own business, best man at two weddings in the last 18 months.

For a social retard, I'm doing alright for myself.... but thanks for your concern

I have 3 dates (or "dates" as you call them) set up for this Thursday, Friday and Saturday (1 from a direct street approach when I was with Jackal) and I am in the process of arranging a 4th for Wednesday with a German girl, another I met through street approach when with Jackal.

This was my first full weekend of direct street approach. Prior to that, I had only done nightgame. Had had good success with it, but have felt lately that I wanted to get good at daygame. I have found it really tough, but I am pleased with what I did.

You have a product to sell, you are trolling and I have reported you to the mods. You are attacking another PUA using a passive-aggressive approach, and dropping little digs like "happy approaching" to make it seem like you aren't really having a pop. In doing so you are demonstrating your own insecurity. If you're product was so good, you wouldn't need to troll other PUA's.

Do not reply to this post as I will not engage you in discussion any further. However, do feel free to PM me to tell me about your magic bullet (full scale success in 3 hours, the clue is in the name - what a bargain!!!!!), because like you I want to be f*cking 7 women in bathroom toilets, not wandering around like the autistic virgin that I am.

Alternatively, you can continue trolling and losing goodwill towards your company and product.

Be my guest....

Happy coaching xxx

For those of you that are interested, here is the product he is selling:

the-personalized-3-hour-multi-disciplin ... 25337.html

If his real life personality is anything like his online persona, then I couldn't imagine it will be a lot of fun, chaps.

Yes Man,

Unfortunately, you have no say over whether or not I reply.

As for trolling, I have not trolled AT ALL, I offered some advice, got a decent answer and an interesting discussion from it and then you let yourself down by using lewd language, ad-hominem attacks and throwing your internet weight around. It was a bit embarrassing to be honest.

As for my product, I have been open about my commercial company and make no apologies for either it's existence or its success ... non of which is relevant to this thread, at all.

No need to hate bro, honestly. Are you angry?

don't be angry, it's fine. Life is good.

There is a lot of love here, get involved.

Also, Jackal, apologies for responding publicly to this guy, I realise it is a bit of a de-rail and I won't clutter your thread by responding to any more of this silliness. But, I'm sure you'll understand given the, erm, outburst/tantrum above.

Genuine respect to you and what you are doing, and happy sarging to the reasonable guys amongst your team.

You have clearly and openly suggested that we are "not seducing women" and are just trying to learn basic social skills and confidence (your exact quote - "you are not trying to seduce women, just be accepted in society"). That is clearly not true, as I have demonstrated through telling you a little about my life, as well as about my successes this weekend (the FIRST WEEKEND I have been about with Jackal) despite being a total newbie at daygame.

And then you have the nerve to complain about "insults". I'd suggest that making a judgement on people's character (people you have NEVER MET) is far more insulting than a throway swear-word. It was poor of me and I reacted. Thats what people do when you needlessly attack a friend.

The irony is that having looked at your product, I was quite impressed. However, your marketing strategy is poor and you are damaging your company by running down others to make yourself look better.

Just a tip bro, but in the long-term its a poor strategy. I am in Sales/Customer Service so I know what I am talking about. People will see through your ploy and their view of you will be more negative as a result.

Good luck with your product, but in future think more about trying to show the value of what you do rather than attacking rivals. It demonstrates more integrity and belief in your product. As a by-product, it will make you feel better about yourself.

Best of luck with it buddy,

Sam.

Jackal is coaching us for free. He has devoted hours to our improvement and he has immensely improved my game. 3hourattraction charges 40 pounds per hour for his coaching.


Saturday with Don Juan and Volcano

BO = Blowout
C

Sunday Afternoon with JACKAL,VOLCANO,DRAGON, DON JUAN,SLICK

After the fun I had with Volcano and Dragon on Saturday where my vibe and energy was really strong throughout the afternoon and I number closed 4 girls. I agreed to meet up with Volcano at 13:00.

I got into my stride really quickly doing a couple of warm up indirect approaches, asking people for directions .e.t.c on my way to meeting up with Volcano. There I also meet up with DRAGON, DON JUAN and SLICK. We all did some warm up approaches on our way to the Bullring things were shaping up really well for a good afternoon of approaching.

Unfortunately that was as good as the afternoon would get. I did quite a few approach however my vibe and energy was not really strong enough. I was going into sets without fully committing to the set, and the girls sensed this and all the sets that afternoon did not last long.

Due to the cold weather we went into the Bullring to do some sets, however things did not really change, personally I still lacked commitment in stopping girls and the experience of approaching indoors threw me off a little. Not that it is harder than street approaching, just different (space, energy levels, more two sets .e.t.c), I will need to desensitise myself to indoor game as it won't be the last time street game may not be suitable.

In hindsight I let the weather and the conditions get to me, as a consequence it drastically affected my the energy I went into set with. Gaming indoors was different, but something I will have to learn and master because for a Day Gamer the weather will always be the greatest variable and should never really be an excuse. In the long term its really about consistency regards of the variables, you are not in control off. My vibe and energy is internal (I have control over it) so I will have to learn to maintain it, get consistent and always find a way.

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Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.

Herbert Otto

I am interested in women, however I am invested in learning the skill set.

Good to see that all you guys are doing well. Worldly, haven't met you yet but having read your field report, I'm Impressed. I haven't had much experience with AMOGS yet but well done. Also Dragon, you seem to have more confidence judging by what you wrote in your last report, you just got to keep pushing.
As for the small argument that's going on I don't want to get involved but Jackal is good at what he does and he's not greedy, he's not after money but more over he enjoys the teaching aspect of what he does. Jackal is Selfless when it comes to this so anyone who has an unecessary grudge is an insecure and selfish *****

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COBRA, COBRA, COBRA!!!

Agreed. Its the way of the world. Insecure people put others down to feel better about themselves.

Worldy has already covered a fair bit of detail of my weekend winging with him and being trained by Jackal, so I won't go over that again, but will simply fill in the blanks and cover the bits he hasn't covered (because he wasn't there for a fair chunk of Saturday) as well as detailing my highlights of the weekend.

This all took a place in Brighton....

Friday Night highlights:

Meeting Jackal at Brighton station with his plastic bag, green jacket and apple. It quickly became clear that Jackal wasn't one of your tedious alpha-male bores, all bluster and arrogance and no sense of self-awareness. He was warm and self-deprecating. Still very much a high-value guy but someone you felt you could still share a laugh and a joke with. This put me at ease, but over the next 24 hours or so, Jackal would take me so far out of my comfort zone it defied belief.

Approaching and number-closing a sexy blonde (the HB8 described by Worldy in previous FR). The key to this was "re-engagement". Initially, I exited this set shortly after opening. But, after spotting IOI's that I hadn't, Jackal forced me to re-engage. She beamed when I asked for her number and I am seeing her on Thursday night. Nice one, Jackal!

Watching Jackal at work in the bars and pubs. Pure social proof, making everyone feel great about themselves within minutes of being there and "opening up the room", making groups in there more open to being approached. Great to watch.

Number-closing the girl behind the counter in the hostel.

Worldy number-closing the HB7 mentioned earlier. Very assertive and dominant.

Saturday:

On Saturday, I met up with The Jackal at just before 2pm. Worldy was playing football with a view to meeting us later. So I was at the mercy of Jackal, alone, for at least 4 or 5 hours.

I suggested we head to a nearby heavy shopping area. On the way, we did a trust exercise that involved shouting across the street to each other. This was a pretty terrifying thing but got me out of my comfort zone.The first few sets bombed and I was feeling strangely nervous.

We sat and had coffee for a bit, before I approached cute petite brunette wearing sunglasses. I told her that I stopped her cos she was cute and asked her to take her sunglasses off so I could see her eyes properly (I should have "demanded" she take her glasses off!). She did and I fluffed nervously for a little longer. I was being too meek and Jackal came into set. He took her glasses off her and started having some fun. I then got her number off her and she offered little resistance. She seemed very shy and slightly confused throughout the interaction, but I'm glad I got her number.

Then we headed down the seaside where there were strangely few woman. Couples and mixed sets everywhere. Jackal kept trying to push me into 2-sets but I didn't feel comfortable with this, as I felt completely unsure what to say to a 2-set. Jackal opened a seated set by ordering them to stand up. They initially looked very unsure, but once they did Jackal turned on the charm.

I did some more approaching, but despite Jackal's encouragement I felt I was struggling to get "into the zone". However, I started to hit my stride around 6pm as my confidence seemed to improved. I was approaching and engaging a LOT more than I had been.

In the evening, Worldy joined us and although I was tiring, I began to feel calmer and more confident as the evening wore on. When Worldy was ordered to the bar by Jackal to invite both barmaids to his "birthday party", I saw the opportunity to approach a girl sat on her own in the bar reading. I suggested she come and join us which she did.

I got her number, which was my 4th over the course of the weekend. After some of the things Jackal had made me do over the course of the weekend, approaching a girl in a bar - sober - and asking for her number seemed easy and comfortable. And I think that is part of the Jackal's method. He pushes you to your absolute limits, so that your comfort zone expands to such a degree that you don't think anything of something that may previously have daunted you.

All in all, really good. Will shortly post up a list of the biggest lessons I felt Worldy and I learnt from Jackal over the course of the weekend.....

PART 2

Me and JACKEL went to go to the central library. As we were walking he told me to approach some random women. After I approach like 2 set these security guys rolled up on me and ask me what I was doing. I told them that I was trying to pick up women on the street. They looked at each other with confusion and told that I was disturbing these women. I immediately left because I thought I was going to get into trouble.

I met up JACKEL,SLICK and DON JUAN who were standing in front of museum and explained what just happened. JACKEL told go back to those guys and ask them for some advice on how to find women. When I went back and asked those guys the question they paused and said that I should try getting hobby or online dating.

Behind paradise forum me and JACKEL were talking about how I could better attract the ladies through my clothing. He told me that I should ask advice of women that were walking by. So I did and got mixed reaction some said I was ok, other said I should wearing shirt
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Anyway after 27 sets we met up with wit SLICK and DON again. On my last set I had a lot of help from SLICK who opened and introduce me. We had long conversation that lasted about 20 min. After that I got the number. At the moment were just texting, will probably meet this Saturday .