I get set up with this hb 8 blind date for our fraternity date party.

I go to my bros place for the pregame

girls show up .We all take i'm going to guess 8 shots each.

at the beggining i focus on the group not my date.

busses arrive we talk on the bus. I was drunk, but i remember the conversation being decent.

basically the whole night at the "venue" consisted of our group going on and off the dance floor several times. Basic Grind dancing.

I stopped the dancing a couple times as to (push). and when she started looking like she wanted to stop i just kinda pushed her away and did my own thing.

IoI's
1. she came back to dance with me if we got seperated
2. when we were grinding she did this thing with her hand like she was trying to hold my face with her palm from the back of her head (lol probably missed my chance for makeout) so i guess to her, i ignored it.
3. she would ask me to follow her and stuff
4. whenever i held my arm out she would lock arms with me happily
5. sometimes when she signaled me to follow her i just ignored it sometimes and she would wait there till i moved. (i was just testing the waters)

end of the night, we bus back. we talk. she says she has to go home to her place (she said this at the begginning of the night) so i'm just like "ya i wish this bus could stop there so you wouldn't have to go to all the trouble of cabbing back since you have to get up in the morning". When we get off and we all depart she comes to me hugs me, smiles, and says something like "i had fun, thanks for being my date, and i will see you later" and I'm just like " alright bye" lol i didn't even try to # close her.

next day she invites me on fb

and thats it

Long story short. did i push too hard? suprisingly i played it cool and collected the whole time for being pretty drunk.

Not if she added you on fb already. sounds to me like your doing everything right, dont be afraid of pulling either, keep throwing in good flirty conversation. Its all about that emotional rollercoaster ride with the ladies. ups and downs create attraction.

To me facebook is huge if a girl adds you. its almost as good as her giving you her number.

keep workin it the way you are, you will be closing in no time.

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