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PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 1:46 pm 
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I sit next to this really hot girl in one of my classes. We talk and sometimes flirt but I just dont know what to talk to her about?

I want to build some attraction and also flirt more but I have a problem of what topics to talk to her about? What are some things I can do during this time to build attraction and flirt more?

Thanks for your help in advance.


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 2:00 pm 
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if she ever tries to talk to you, or asks your questions, or answers your questions about herself and gets into detail, there is a good chance your verbal attraction work is complete,

what you should focus more on, is escalation and forming a connection,

invite her out to hang out alone with you to do something fun, make sure it is just you and her, if she has some sort of excuse why she can't hang out every time, save yourself some time, and go talk to other girls, and improve yourself, both physically and socially (the gym and practise socializing)

changing your personality and looks doesn't happen over night, and one line here and one line there will not be a big enough difference to get you laid, it is either there at the present, or you have to find another girl who deems that it is there, keep working on it, keep practising, don't get fixated on one girl

get fixated on the process of meeting new girls and becoming better looking and more interesting to talk to, work on how smoothly you can escalate and making that whole process better

but right now, I would say if you have talked to her for longer then an hour, invite her to go to a movie or something, instead of worrying about building attraction, chances are it is already there you are just doubting yourself and can't see it

GOOD LUCK


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Are you in college?

If so, there are girls everywhere, practice with some of them first.

There's no point to trying to go from in-class friendship to sexuality unless you're sure that you can do it, and you don't seem sure. If you screw this up, you're going to have to see this girl often.

Meet girls! College makes that so easy.


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Don't worry about attraction, focus on AROUSAL. Both physical arousal (turning her on) and mental arousal (forming an emotional connection). Arouse her and attraction will take care of itself.

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