This is a great place to start on here:
frame-control-defining-reality-and-bein ... 34530.html
Just reading it myself. Some great stuff.
EDIT: Finished the thread and got hooked onto RSD (Real Social Dynamics). That's the school of thought that fits me the best. I recommend watching a few of their free vids on youtube. They have a TON of free classes essentially that you can watch. Tyler Durden is very funny, witty, and clearly has done his homework (and some other stuff

) I won't gush too much about it. I'm NOT trying to sell them to you, just check it out and see if something that fits your personality.
Now I'm going out to open some girls. TTYL
