I'm dating this girl...I commented on how she only shows her feisty side but never her soft side. She says she trusts me but it requires a different kind of trust. I ask her how or what? And she says it's what I don't do.


She also brought up that she was wearing the pants in her last relationship and she didn't want that anymore. She want to be a girly girl.

What am I suppose to do to make her think I'm wearing the pants in the relationship?

We kiss only when she's drunk.
She refuses to spend the night at my place.

Should I start going in for a kiss every time we leave?

Make her think that you wear the pants?

Only one way to do that. Wear the pants.

She had to wear the pants in the past meaning her ex wasnt satisfying her needs. If you want her to trust you and allow you to take over, make sure you show her that you are in control, and that you are stronger than her. Make sure she feels safe with you and that she feels that you have everything covered.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

She wants a man not a boy. So dominate her.

You need to whip it out and give her a good dick-slapping session. The cunt must obey the cock, there is no other way for a relationship to work. Here are some things you can change:

(a) Be LESS AVAILABLE and LESS needy than her. Don't say I love you first, adhere to a texting or calling ratio in your favor (make sure you text less her less than she texts you), and DO NOT supplicate to her.

(b) Build competitive anxiety. Make her jealous. Women WANT MEN that OTHER women want to fuck

(c) Whoever needs the other person less in a relationship has more power - never let this dynamic get lopsided in HER favor.

(d) Don't be indecisive. You choose where to eat, where to go, what to do.

(e) Neg Her. She wants a mortal god she can idolize. You must constantly CONSTANTLY reinforce your higher status. Tease the shit out of her; let playful insults flow out endlessly.

(f) Be dominant during secks. Don't ASK her permission to do something. Own her body.

(g) Pass her hurdles. She'll shit test you like none other, don't let it shake your frame.


You have to be the epitome of DominantAsFuckingFuckness. Cut all that cheesy beta shit out and don't be afraid to take charge.

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