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So me and this extremely hot girl at my uni have been flirting for weeks and every time we're out we dance dirty and ALMOST kiss, but she has a boyfriend so we can't do anything.
She told me today that she broke up with him and has been VERY touchy-feely and willing to come over/have me over etc.

I think I can f-close but the problem is she was with her bf for 2 years and I'm a virgin!!

I need a bit of advice about having sex, a few things under my belt for the first time. I've got to base 3 with a couple of girls but I still need BASICS.
My 'plans' for my first time I've been thinking about; start by fingering her and then going down on her (how long for??)
Then go for missionary, I've heard it's better with a pillow under her back? I've also heard after this the Coital Alignment Technique is good and likely to make her orgasm (which I want to do!)

I just need general advice as I'm not experienced and she is, do I talk to her during sex? How do I change positions? How long should I go down on her and how do I know when to start penetration?

I don't think she's the type of girl to judge people anyway but I think there's serious potential for a relationship and I don't want to look like a noob however stupid it sounds.
I've been waiting ages for this and would LOVE some advice ASAP! x

1. Don't OVERTHINK it.

2. Plenty of foreplay. Don't rush into the sex itself. Ease into things, so you're both relaxed and enjoying the process.

3. When you finger her, start with one finger. The motion inside her is a beckoning "come here" motion, which strokes the front wall of her vagina. That's where the G spot is. Make sure she's wet BEFORE you start fingering her.

4. If you go down on her, keep up the "come here" motion inside her vagina while sucking/licking her clitoris. REMEMBER to start with 1 finger then move to 2.

5. DEFINITELY talk to her during sex. I know it seems weird but it's almost essential in my opinion. Using dirty talk effectively can make a girl cum twice as fast. Use it to reassure her as well. Tell her you love the taste of her pussy. Tell her how wet she is. Tell her she's a good girl when she pleasures you. Tell her when you want her to cum. Talking to her in this way is DOMINANT and EMOTIONALLY STIMULATING.

6. Use protection.

7. Don't beat yourself up if it doesn't go as you planned. Sex takes practice. More practice than you think.

Thanks! Do I make her wet by rubbing her clit with my finger first? Also the positions I stated are they good for the first time??
And last thing, sounds really wierd and pedantic but where are good places to be kissing/touching her during foreplay and sex? You could make my life a whole lot better with this advice! x

Freddy you can't really overdo the kissing and touching before hand. In fact, this is the only 'work' you need to do to seal the deal. If you take your time at the start and keep it slow and make it all about her, she'll jump you and make it all about you. Places to kiss and other similar things:
When your on the couch and watching tv and ready to get things started, lean into her with your arm around her and then softly blow or breathe into her ear-gold.
When the gear is off (in fact any time), kissing or softly biting her neck/shoulder/collar bone are definite winners. Then later, kissing anywhere sensitive like the inside thigh and the creases on her body (back of her knees, at the top where the thigh meets the butt) will work wonders. By that time she'll be ready to reward your patience and its on!

Errr... whats with the kiss at the end of the message 'x'?

You'll make her wet through general caressing of her vagina through her panties, while making out etc. I don't recommend paying special attention to the clitoris right off the bat. Lots of guys think it's a "magic pleasure button," but it's actually really sensitive and rubbing it madly when she isn't aroused yet probably won't feel the best. Like I said, take it slow. While you're making out, start caressing her thigh first. Make her WANT you to touch her pussy. Then when you do, start off light, and build up. The way to get girls going is to TEASE them - not to just dive right on in.

Same goes for cunnilingus. When you're down there, start by kissing and biting her inner thighs. It'll drive her mad. Then lick the crease between her thigh and pussy. Then just breathe on her vagina for a bit. The anticipation will kill her - she'll be gagging for it. When you finally plunge your tongue in there it will feel amazing.

This. And RELAX, it sounds like you're really building this up. Don't over think anything and just go with what feels right. If it doesn't go as planned don't worry about it, shit happens. My first time sucked, but I didn't let it keep me down and I learned from it. Oh, and don't put the pussy on the pedestal.

moved to general questions, as this is not a lay report

stop being a bitch and be a man. Look and act like you WANT to fuck her. Works like a charm and the woman knows it if she see it in your eyes and actions.

Cheers for all the help guys!
Trust me I know I sound like a pussy but I really want this girl and don't wanna flop (in more ways than one), messed up too many chances in the past cuz of confidence n shit and have to do it properly this time, hopefully.
She slept over the other day but nothing happened past 1st base but we were both tired and went to sleep, she may come over again soon so I'll take all this into account, any last minute tips (anything that helps you/them!) will be gratefully accepeted. Legends!

LoL use protection AFTER you go down on her. I think it would be too late for that.

LoL use protection AFTER you go down on her. I think it would be too late for that. They don't make condoms for vaginas for oral sex.

NEED SOME LIGHT ON THIS!!
I just went back to her place after a night out. We were making out passionately on her bed and I was rubbing her you-know-what over her panties. Every time I tried to put my hand down her pants she pulled them back out and said that she needs to wee so don't do it.
I kept getting texts from my friend saying that she's with my other friend who was absolutely wasted so I had to go pick him up. I told her and she said it's fine and she's not angry but kept on kissing etc.
Eventually after a while I left and she went to the toilet for her wee.

Is this a valid excuse for not wanting to be fingered?
And I am a MASSIVE PRICK for leaving I know but it had to be done..

"WEE WEE"......WTF?

" I was rubbing her you-know-what over her panties"....WTF?


"And I am a MASSIVE PRICK for leaving I know but it had to be done.." WTF?


commom be a fucking man!

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Loll quite cringy, let me re-word.
I was rubbing her pussy over her panties, she was quite wet, but when I went to slip a finger in she said don't cuz she needed a piss..

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