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| linebacker30 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 12:12 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Feb 05, 2011 12:00 pm Posts: 60 Location: montreal | | Ok guys this is the situation
When a girl tells you: I don't wanna dance with you, you are to touchy feely..
How do you respond to that?
Let's add another difficulty to my question...
If she says that and I answered to her: so?? and then she answers me by showing me a ring... what's the good thing to tell her? I just pulled back and I stoped and then I learned she has a fiancee but it's an arranged wedding.. my gut feelings was that she was down with me.
Was that a shit test? Because the girl looked like she was down I just didn't know what to tell her.. first time that hapenned to me!
How would you guys respond to that?
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| linebacker30 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 12:25 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Feb 05, 2011 12:00 pm Posts: 60 Location: montreal | | oh ya and another thing... I was actually talking to another girl the same night and I was negging her playfully and she took the girl that has a fiancee and said: OMG HE'S SO MEAN!!! But she had that hugee smile.. And then a bit later she came to me and said: I want your necklace and she acted like she was taking it from me so I looked at her and told her that she can't have it and then she answered: Usually I always get what I want... and I told her well that's not how it works with me and she just left.
Usually I would have said something like: the only girls that were able to get my necklace took it from me while having sex!
The girl is a real hottie like hb 9.5.. usually when I neg, I always do it playfully so normally I don't get the OMG HE'S SO MEAN but again she had that huge smile and she came and tried to take my necklace after... so how would you respond if a girl tells you that you are mean? I just smiled and didn't say nothing.
Alcohol fucked my game big time that night!
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| Cognizant1 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 3:24 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:00 am Posts: 123 | | too touchy feely = she's not feeling u
it's not that she doesn't want to be touched, she just doesnt want it from you
find a girl who does.
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| linebacker30 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 5:03 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Feb 05, 2011 12:00 pm Posts: 60 Location: montreal | | u sure about that? cuz I had a good vibe from that girl
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| Hakuna | PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 6:29 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri May 21, 2010 5:03 am Posts: 408 Website: http://solvemygirlproblems.com | | I went through a very similar exchange, this is what I did:
Her: "Sorry, I'm not really into dancing"
Me: "Why? Are you really that bad?"
Her: "[shows ring]"
Me: "Cool. Does it give you any super powers?"
Granted it wasn't an arranged marriage and my line might have been a bit too abrasive; but I got a slut vibe from her so I went c/f all the way. The key is to really read your target. In your case, if you were getting good vibes from her, I would've responded back with a neg like
"Don't worry, I'm only touchy with girls I'm interested in."
"So..." works too, if you pull it off in a completely non-chalant + diabolical sorta way. It CAN'T be a DEFENSIVE "so"
And then when she pulled the ring on you, another neg or something brief of that sort. Once you learn Jedi Game, you can ignore it totally and just wave away her memories of her fiance. Till then, you'll have to focus on running tight game and preserving frame control when a girl shows you a ring. Remember it does NOT matter. There's an 80% chance that she's either married to a beta, or still willing to cheat on her Alpha husband for whatever reason.
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| linebacker30 | PostPosted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 9:27 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Feb 05, 2011 12:00 pm Posts: 60 Location: montreal |
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