How do you deal with a girl or someone who is in love with more than one person at the same time. For example, there's this girl who considers two guys (yourself and her best guy friend) to both be potential long term partners, and is in the pondering process about who to be with?

Does all it come down to is beating your competition or is there more to this? Is competition really the answer?

take yourself out of the equation, if its you she decides she wants she'll come around, if not then you haven't lost anything.

i was in the situation and ended up winning. my advice, run away. being in love with 2 guys is a sign of weakness and immaturity. it shows that she wants everything, doesn't need to make decisions, and can't make decisions.

if you really want her, and she decides the same, make her take the other guy fully out of the equation. they have to break all contact, or else she'll never get over him. believe me.

Taking yourself out out of the competition is like admitting defeat.

So what if she's being immature? The point is that you like her and want to bang her. So how do you make that happen when there's another guy around?

does that even matter?
ask yourself, if you liked two girls and they liked you back, would you not sleep with one because the other one also liked you? or would you just be interested in both?

just step up and escalate if you want it so bad, her compliance towards you will tell your everything, if she has excuses why she isn't being compliant, then you should stop wasting your time and put that girl on the backburner and go look for something better

you don't have to make her choose anything, you are not her boyfriend, you don't own her, just sleep with her, and continue to do so as long as that is what you want, if you want to be her boyfriend, then either sleep with her until she asks you out, or just ask her out yourself and start dating her, pretty cut and dry simple, you will figure out what is going on once you test the damn waters

You're gonna face "defeat" hundreds of times with women. If you look at it as competition, then you are missing something huge. If it's a contest to be won or lost, you are already viewing this girl as some sort of prize. There are other women who aren't as much trouble. Find them, hook up with them, and get your balls back.

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These hos ain't loyal

My girlfriend of 1.5 years is truly Poly (i.e. capable of loving more than one person at a time).. so this is pretty much a constant in my life. The two of us are in a really amazing open relationship. If this girl treats you well, then her poly-tendencies are not a big deal. In fact, it gives you a great opportunity to display high value: you get to show non-neediness, confidence and outcome independence by being understanding of her situation and by not being jealous of the other guy.

If you ever felt the desire to experience an open LTR, then this is probably a good time to start.

-Wolf

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But she's so fine~ and I want to see what's underneath the cloths !

I guess. You don't have to really be her boyfriend to fuck her!

You've gotten some really good advice so far. Pay attention to all of it.

The most mature, confident and powerful thing you could do would be to fuck her, and barely give her any attention.

If she has another guy to give her emotional support, you don't need to, and if you were to try, you would seem needy. Rather, pull away, but keep having sex, and she'll be more drawn to you.

First step is to have sex with her. Do so directly and without hesitation. The next step is to avoid/ignore all emotional discussions until she is completely done with this other guy
^The second step will probably take longer than you think.

THIS PLAN REQUIRES THAT YOU FIND OTHER GIRLS.

never give up bro! You will have to compete for girls, and that's why you learn game.

When your with her, those 2 guys don't exist. Never even bring it up. If she does, change topic. When a girl brings up other guys, take it as a shit test.

The answer to your prayers brother "how to get rid of the other guy" http://wayoftheplayer.com/become-a-play ... other-guy/ check it

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