On a normal day, I'm kinda like an above average lookin guy. ladies always lookin at me like oh he's cute. I'm not bragging about my look here just telling the truth. But in the club, especially on the dancefloor, I'm not that popular one. I try to grind on them and ladies look behind and check me out then they just push me away. hurtful rejection. I thought they were just not drunk enough but to my surprise, this chick picks other less attractive dudes over me and it really gets me pissed off. I really don't understand girls. of couse I don't give a s*it about ugly chicks but sometimes hot chick does that and it really confuses me. I mean, if I knew I was not that good looking guy, I would try to change my character to an ugly funny guy like Jack Black. But seriously on a normal day, I can feel them ladies lookin at me like I'm a good lookin guy. but maybe not on the dancefloor?

I don't understand

Im just going to state a theory. how tall are you? anyways most women when they go out to a club for a one night stand want a manly man. means 6 ft plus. facial hair. muscles. you can still be good looking but not have those qualities

Looks is a bonus, don't completely depend on it for your game. Grinding on girls on dance floor is hit or a miss by the game. Just like direct game. And part of game is handling rejection. Best PUA in the world get rejected all the time.

I go out with my 2 female friends all the time, who I know through there boyfriends. They blow off guys all night long. They even got sarged by some pro pick up artist (cant mention names) and they straight up blew them off. Is not that there rude, is just that they respect there boyfriends. So you never know what the situation could be like.

I don't know man- I get way more interest from women when I'm in a bar with a live band and dance floor than I do when I am in a trendy dance clubs jamming out super loud dance music. Maybe it's because the girls are more down to earth in the bars. I'm not sure.

some of my friends (girls) thinks that average guys are well average so they don't go for that kind of guy. they go for the ends meaning those above or below average. but when i look at the guys they go for i think they average as well. i think it varies on the different standards they set.

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Not a fan of the approach from behind and start grinding her method. Very AFC, and majority of guys do it.

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Not to mention it looks fucking desperate and horrible to watch.

Agreed 100% with the both of you.

We hate this.

Hate.

You may be doing this because you are too shy to approach a woman from the front. But we read it as: "This guy doesn't even want to look me in the eye before he rubs his penis on my ass."

Go out to the club. Dance like you don't give a flying fuck who sees you. Even if you suck. Be confident, and have fun. We go up to people like that. Because our boyfriends/guyfriends are probably sitting by the bar not entertaining us.

Take advantage.

-w

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