So I am messaging this girl back who got to know about me through a female friend ( she DHV'ed me quite a bit).i have never met her ,just been messaging and now this girl that i am gaming is asking for my pic and I want to dhv a bit and show preselection .Something on the lines of

"Thank god you are interested in me as a person and not just in my money like my previous gf's ...a line about how my ex-gf spent my money"

Do you guys think the tone is right here?Any way in which I could be more subtle about the fact that i have decent money.I definitely want to show her that i have lot of money but dont want to come across as a bragger.

It's cool, but it rubs off as a bit needy to me, that you WANT her to be interested in you, when she should be thanking God that she's even talking to you. You're the prize, not her. But here you flipped that. know what i mean?

Thanks bro.That's what I felt too and so asked here .How about something like this .

"But i am glad you dont sound like my previous gf's ....I mean can you imagine one of them actually spent 1000 $ in one night on clothes?"

Can you give some ideas?

If I'd go with something similar I would go with this
"You look like a bad girl, but not like my ex that's just out to suck my money dry."
It doesn't show you're needy, and it does show you got the $$.

But she'll probably start asking you about your ex, so be prepared.

that actually sounds pretty bad, with dhv's you want to actually demonstrate them, not qualify yourself, you want to just actually have interest from girls she knows for you pre-selection, not just talk about, OHH THANK GOD, girls usually only like me for my money, that actually sounds sort of low value to be honest

you would be better off just being involved in a social circle with her and having other girls talking about you and how cute they think you are etc. that is the kind of pre-selection you want, not yeah... that's like this girl friend I used to date, and that is like my ex-girfriend, and oh that reminds me of all the other girls that I used to blah blah, and did I mention I knew this girl and she used to blah blah, I used to have a whole bunch of girls trying to get with me because of my car and blah blah

avoid that qualification, don't talk about yourself, just focus on having fun, if you are going to verbally dhv yourself, don't just qualify yourself, tell a cool story that is either funny, or interesting that just happens to have dhv spikes inside it, avoid at all costs just randomly qualifying yourself, if the qualification has a dhv in it or not, it is still lame, and comes off as either bragging or qualifying yourself to her, if she will qualify for you, that is what you want not the other way around