I like this girl which is one of the hottest girls in college. Shes never had a BF.
I text-ed her and asked her if she would ever go out with someone: she said if she liked the guy. I then asked her if she liked anyone she said no.

She asked me the same question and I said maybe and I'm not sure if i like her for sure yet. She then asked me questions about who the girl was I just responded with she is beautiful and sweet.

The thing is I have only started flirty with her for the past week and I think she knows I am interested in her but she is sending me mixed messages and playing hard to get.

I am really confused what shall I do to find out that if she is interested in me aswell? and also what shall i do to get this girl. I am close to her and she sits next to me in some class's.

Plz give me tips on what i can do during the time I have with her?

MANY guys are after her in college, How am I suppose to be different?.

Don't come off as too needy. You don't need to text her all the time.
She's sending you mixed messages because that's what girls do, she wants to make sure you're not just some wuss and you actually are a man. Show dominance (note:that doesn't mean be a dick, it means be dominant) Be decisive, witty, strong (more psychologically than physically, but working out never hurts) and know what you want.

Read up on cocky funny routines, or more importantly, the mindset. The whole "who do you like? I dunno, who do you like?" Thing that it seems like you're doing needs to stop. It's childish and non attractive. Either go direct and let her know you like her and build attraction, or go indirect and get her to start being attracted to you before you invest.

One game I came up with that works very good in classes is the Picture game. During class just grab a blank paper and start drawin on it. It musnt be a piece of art. Then before the picture is finished you hand it over to her and she continues with it. You can also draw some dirty/funny stuff. Like draw 2 giraffes or normal stuff like that. That creates some attraction and you can play with her mind this way.

Or draw some penises on her book with some pencil. Thats also fun and if she hates it she can still erase it.

The girls I games with that one seemed to like it. Its also good, because this game is only for you two, so your doing something funny together. If the others would see she'd be embarassed but since they cannot its fun and goes in the direction of sitting together in a restraunt and playing with her vagina under the table.

Another thing to create attraction is to bring a cardgame to school. Then in the brakes you invite a few buddys and you play you game of cards together. If you have fun others will join. Thus you are the leader, having fun and be in a "tribe" that she wants to belong to. Important qualities for to find a good girl.

This.

You're being too insecure. You are looking at it like "I am just one guy out of many" and pussing out. You need to look at it like "There is nothing better about any of these other guys. The vaginas they came out of were not sprinkled with magic dust. Fuck them. She is mine."

Any self doubt that creeps in serves no purpose. It makes you feel like shit, it makes you not get the girl. Train yourself to spot those thoughts and instantly kill them with ideas of how awesome you are and how much you deserve to be with her.

Then be direct with her. Like someone previously mentioned, she is sending signals to see what you do. When you give little to no reaction, or it is timid and indirect (the "do you like someone" thing), you can't expect her to escalate.

Take control. Text her that you would like to get together soon. If she says no, she is not worth your time. You are in college. Girls get parachuted in from the sky every other Tuesday there. You have options.

But I'm sure you can get this one. Good luck.

-w.

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Fuck some other girls along the way. You'll find a lot of women who aren't nearly as much trouble.

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Thanks for the reply's, Some points which are really good

I have told her that I like someone in college. Now she says she is soo excited to find out who she is and she keeps asking me questions about the girl: I always tell her that girl as beautiful and sweet. But I also give her hints that it is her that I like. I think she knows who I am talking about but she is playing dumb. Sometimes she gets really close to me but when I make a move to come closer she pulls away.

What steps shall I take from now? I am thinking of keep flirting with her for a couple of weeks and then go and ask her directly.

Really?

Or you can do it now before someone else does.

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Ask her out. Tell her you DO like her, and want to get to know her better, and stop there.