Too bad. You're 30. You're not 21. You're 30.

You are fixing your social life now, because you weren't acting right when you were 21 and out getting pussy.

But realize that game at 30 is different from game at 21.

Girls do not want a 30 year old Mama's boy who can barely afford his shitty apartment.

Man up, get a better job, a cheaper apartment, start saving money and maybe you'll have a healthy lifestyle when you're 50. Suck it up, grab your balls and get to work.

is there a term for a guy in the pua scene who takes another newbie under his wing and acts all cocky and bossy and tells the newbie to go and approach women? i don't like these types cause they usually are not surrounded by female friends and are not actively dating themselves.

if you trim your neck hair, nails, nose hair, wash, use a little cologne, dress better - women will notice you more and you will get more interest from them and more of a positive reaction when you talk to them.

i dress up in $300 worth of clothes and i go out and say hi to women who sit next to me at a coffee shop or read the same billboard. if i am dress up - they often smile and reply. they don't back away. mind you i never got any dates this way or anything, a few flakes. but, if i am not dressed up. the women get scared, like i might have as well been a homeless bum and they don't reply, don't smile back, and want to get out of there and have no interest in me. also if i am not dressed up, women don't even glance at me when they pass me a grocery store.

you can get nice clothes at Second Hand Stores and also Consignment stores where people sell their used high end designer items. in some areas of town there is not much demand for this used clothing and you can find nice items for 30% the price tag. also in Consignment stores, Men don't usually shop there, so they often have extra sales and discounts for men and there is more nice clothing to pick from because there aren't many men going there to buy stuff.

working out would break your bank? it cost 20$ a month to work out at most gyms, and it's free if you google "work out routine" - The only thing to complain about is if your to lazy to follow through with it, it has nothing to do with money.

$30 haircut? shop around (if you can do it yourself) or get a simpler cut; you don't need a 2 foot mohawk with dreds and special hair coloring to get women

big time cologne? I NEVER use that stuff (don't hate) and get all the women i want, just take showers and use deodorant.

expensive clothes? like pyuya said "you can get nice clothes at Second Hand Stores and also Consignment stores where people sell their used high end designer items." I got a nice jacket from Target for $25

being a pua doesn't mean you have 600 billion dollars (or pounds/euros) it's a skill. If your wimping out because it will take some of your time up then do leave, you need to have a want to learn this stuff.

DTF women (one night stands) usually require one thing, cheap ass drinks, if you can afford enough of those you can get one

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consignment stores....do you mean a thrift shop?

yeah, i'm 30 but a 30 year old today acts pretty much like a 21 year old. there are tattoo artists that are 30 and they act this way. hank moody does(not a tattoo artist but a rock star wannabe), and yeah he's fictional, but tv and music makes you want to be young. also i remember ten years ago and my mother had a boyfriend in his late 30s, thats scary for me. i don't want to act like what my mother dated ten years ago.

We have a new Danthedan i guess.. Good look to you dude, you could always seek professional help, we obviously aren't cutting it.

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danthedan? ha! i havent posted repetitive complaints like he has in thread after thread. i'm made it all known in this thread.

You aren't accepting what we've said and changing yourself.

A man reads this thread and says, "I see something here that is not what I've been doing. These guys know what they're talking about, I should go get my life straight."

So go be a man and get stuff done.

That means getting your hair cut TODAY. Working out TODAY. Looking for a new job, if that's something you want, TODAY.

Write down your goals TODAY, then work TODAY and TOMORROW to achieve them. Do not plan for next week. Look at your list of goals every day and figure out what you can do TODAY/TOMORROW to get what you want.

I had to look back at this thread. And this post has stood out to me. Not that I'm going to agree because I look young but still it makes me realize I have to lie.