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Imagine ur in a nightclub, high energy, loud..
If u make a direct approach u kino right away? Or is that creepy?
And what about a c/f opener? Like saying: "Ur standing here 5mins and haven't said hi".
Kino is any touching, so yes; shake her hand (or hug if you think you can do that without being creepy) and there, your touching her.
You do need to build rapport to do higher level kino, but luckily enough shaking hands and saying "hi" is the first 50% of rapport needed.
c/f openers are never a good way to start off imo; to many guys use the same canned c/f stuff and never try to be themselves, and girls are WAY to used to it.
Just think about the situation and think of a good observation opener or something - what's she drinking, is she moving a lot or talking to a lot of people, is she staying close to her friend ect.