Hey, so I've actually been texting with this chick. We flirted back and forth for a while and when I asked whether she wanted to do stuff, she just said she didn't know yet but that she was busy with an evening course program during the week. I told her that we could also change the world together afterwards (around 9 pm) to which she replied that she'd let me know "tomorrow" (would've been yesterday).

She never did.

My gut tells me to leave her alone for a while, then text her again in a week or so, asking her whether she and her friends wanted to come along to a bar (probably best on the weekend). If she doesn't reply to that, forget about her.

The right attitude?

Dude! This is the perfect opportunity for you to do some experiments! Don't give up on her until it is a flat out no. Don't get all emotionally attached to her but try new things from time to time. Look at her as an experiment and learn from it. I think you have the right idea but if you're going to invite her friends along, do them a favor and bring some of your friends that might mesh well with them. Also, start talking to more girls and trying things with them. Don't make her the only one you try new ideas on. A lot of PUAs say to forget her and move on but seriously, you'd be throwing away opportunity to try new things. What I'm trying to say is move on emotionally to new women but keep her in your back pocket to try new ideas on when you think they might fit.

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Agreed with the above.

If you have a girl were things aren't gonna work out and it's best to forget and move on, use her as a guinea pig. See what you can do. It's all experience.

The main thing to remember is to not concentrate on one girl and game as many as you can. I try to, even if they are fuck ugly I still do it (ok with a lot less effort) for the experience and it's understanding the female phscyhe. Important point to note though, don't go out specifically to pick up fugly people, you won't improve in terms on intimidation from pretty girls. But if you're supermarket check out person is a girl, go for it pretty or not. You don't have to actually call her...

She's flakey because you are texting her like a 13 year old schoolgirl, pick up the phone and call her like a man.

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think with your dick when they flake

stop giving her the frame and take it for your own

be a man, exude confidence and if that's not you right now because you're so caught up in your own head about this girl, than simply act it. Ask yourself how would someone cool as shit like George Clooney or Marlon Brando do in such a situation. You need a new frame. Also don't send her walls of text keep things short but with lots of sexual inuendo don't diffuse it by trying to be too funny or talking too much.

Hey...

thanks, your input is appreciated!

I guess I'll text her again on Saturday night, telling her where my friends and me are; - asking for her whereabouts. Sounds like a plan?

You name it.

Like a 13-year-old schoolgirl.

This is exactly how many WOMEN behave.

Like 13-year-old schoolgirls.

Some of them tend to get all fidgety and nervous when you call them and will neither pick up the phone nor call you back (female approach anxiety?...).
They WILL however reply to your text messages, since this leaves them time and space to craft a well-reflected answer.

If they don't pick up the phone when you call them, you'll eventually have to resort to texting again which at that point might come across as a little pushy
(since she's already rejected you by not picking up the phone).
NOT advisable.


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Thanks, I'll try not to use my elbow next time.

This is exactly why you are not getting laid in quality and quantity; keep believing that and I guess I will be seeing you on here quite a bit, each time with a different version of the exact same problem.

Or...

You could accept that your current mentality about women is total bullshit and just a front for the anxiety you feel about calling a girl and having a real conversation.

If I wanted help with something I would find someone who was the best at doing that particular thing and ask them how they do it but you're right, your way is better.

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