Mate,

I didn't say 'any girl' so, look again at that.

It is a simple point. And made from a position of concern and experience.

Didn't think it would go down well, and it hasn't. No big deal.

Good luck with everything and I hope with a bit of perspective you might look again at what I posted and see some value in it.

Until then, happy approaching.

Mate,

I have made some points made from a position of my concern and experience.

Good luck with everything and I hope with a bit of perspective you might look again at what I posted and see some value in it.

Until then, happy teaching.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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'POINT' ---------------------------------------> 'MISSED'

I really believe the jumping jacks exercise helped Don Juan. His main problem is worrying about what other people think, and this lessened that fear. It allows him to focus on the girl instead of the people around the girl. It helped me as well.

FRIDAY NIGHT SARGING: PART 1 – WITH JACKAL AT WETHERSPOONS AND SLUG

On Friday, I had a good night sarging as I had a lot of fun. My mood was exuberant as I had a few funny pick up lines and openers in my mind.
At first, I met JACKAL and SLICK at the Wetherspoons in paradise forum.

2 HB7 FRENCH BABES AT WETHERSPOONS
JACKAL asked me to open a 2 set of HB7’s eating their fucking burgers and chips. Surprisingly I didn’t refuse it and decided to open the fucking set. I went up to the them.
Me: “Hi. I just wanted to say that you two look really beautiful.
Them: Thanks.
Me: I think I have fallen in love with you. (to one of them)
Her : We are waiting for our boyfriends.
Me: So what is the secret of your beauty ?
Her:Sorry we are French and we don’t speak English well.
Me : Can I have your number ?
Them : No.
I ejected confidently. I saw some guys in the bar looking at me as if I had done something unusual. This reminds me of this line “To get what most men don’t get, you have to do what most men won’t do”.

GERMAN HB6 AT SLUG AND LETTUCE
Me, SLICK and JACKAL later went to SLUG. I saw DIAMONDS there sitting with his girlfriend. We greeted them and I also used a pick up line on his girlfriend just to cheer her up which probably is not a good idea.
I was outside smoking a cigarette and talking to SLICK when he asked me to open a girl standing right behind me. I just turned around and started talking to her.
Me : Hi. How is it going ?
She : Good
Me : I smoke too. Do you feel lonely when you smoke ?
She :No.
Me: Let me guess. Are you French ?
She : No try again, I am from somewhere east of France.
Me: Hungary ? or is it Italy or Poland ?
She : No. Germany.
Me: I find that French and Germans look alike. Are you from somewhere close to the French border in Germany ?
She : No
Me: Let me guess your zodiac sign. (I took a few seconds to study her face). Are you a leo ?
She: Yes. OMG this is weird.
Me: Give me a high five. So what do you do here ? Study ?
She: Yes. I study.
Me : Who are you here with ?
She :My boyfriend is inside.
Me: Which university ?
She:BCU
Me: Cool.Does your boyfriend study with you in Birmingham
She: Yes.
Me.: Nice talking to you. See you later.
She went back as she had finished her smoke.

INDIAN HB6.5 AT SLUG AND LETTUCE

I opened a single set sitting in the smoking area upon JACKAL’s command.
Me: Hey how is it going ?
She :Good
Me : I had to come over here and talk to you because sweetness is my weakness. (pickup line)
I asked her name. She said Sam. I asked if it was short for Samarjit or something. She said Samira. I asked her if she comes to Slug very often. I talked to her for a while about her job. I couldn’t guess her zodiac sign. I came close to guessing her profession. She was a teacher. In this set, I felt that I was giving too much breaks in my speech. I think she was helping me to fill in the gaps which was an IOI. When she finished her smoke, she walked inside. I didn’t number close which was stupid.

Don Juan very well presented Field Report.

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New guys please take a look at the above link.

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Meet and Wing.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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Started the day at about 330 with Dragon. I met dragon a week before. He has a enthusiastic attitude towards things and in my opinion has little AA, well he had less AA than I did on the Sunday we sarged. Even times when I voiced doubts and tainted things with negativity, it didn't phase him.

Me and Dragon had done a few sets but with no success.. I don't think I even attempted to number close any of them.

We kind of bumped into Terrance and his friend in town outside paradise forum. I sensed an immediate calm alpha-ness about him and seems positive about what we do.

We met with jackal, I did a few sets, got a number from a 6. Did a few more sets walking towards town. I was doing something which I don't normally do. I went in direct and just straight off asked for a number. Usually I open with an opinion opener and just talk shit but now im doing direct.

Had a lot of fun though especially e.g. in Primark, asking girls if women’s underwear would look good on me, got Terrance and dragon to do it. Most times we got a few laughs

- I got a number from a 6.5 outside paradise forum.
- Then took a number from a commercial looking 6 (what I'd call a chav)
- Then saw eye cantact from a 9 walking by so approached and took her number.
- Then outside spoons approached and 7 and and did direct, then she started walking off and said something like “are you just walking up to randomers and asking for their numbers?” so just carried on talking, so she stopped and turned around. Through this interaction I asked for her number three times and on the third time I got it. (We're texting so the fact I asked three times didn't mean shit)

I then did some club game with Don and Slick. The night was a complete failure. I did like 4 or 5 approaches throughout the night and they weren't even real approaches because I went in expecting failure, I went in nervous as fuck (despite being drunk) .

Im not sure what has been going on with me with the last two club nights. Complete AA EVEN WHEN IM DRUNK. I actually can't believe it. I'm not making excuses but it might have something to do with the fact that I feed off of negative energy/ people feed off of negative energy. Both the guys I went with are full of AA. I went one night with Romeo and I had no AA, even when I go alone I have no AA.

Maybe it's just me and there is just no reason for why I'm feeling the AA, Maybe I should just push to get over it.

Got a number from another 6/10 which she wasn't even asked to do, she took my phone and put it in herself. I was just like... okay!

But overall I enjoyed the whole experience. Every weekend is as surreal as the next. Many thanks to all of you for sarging with me and winging me.

Volcano. You are right about negative energy. It just shows u r human. You need to be really strong to not be affected by a wings AA.

Considering u have been taking a leadership approach to the new guys. It has been appreciated by the newbies. Keep it up, u r club King, ZERO would be proud. You usuallly club on your own, so it was nice to take the new guys under your wing.

Well done.

JACKAL

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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The only times I approached girls this month were when I was with Jackal crew members. I did a lot of approaches (between 50 and 100). Jackal is the main reason for this progress. He pushes me in a way that no one else can. I appreciate his help immensely. However, even though he pushes me into sets, there are still many that I refused to do (even when he unwaveringly said "2 set, Engage!"). The only way I'm going to get to the next level is by learning to approach alone, with no one encouraging me. Today is the closest I got. I approached 2 separate girls on campus. I asked each of them where the Main Building is, and while they starting to give me directions, I said "I'm just kidding. I thought you were really cute and I wanted to talk to you" Both of these approaches resulted in blowouts.

True, I did approach alone today. However, I'm not going to say I accomplished my goal yet. The reason is because I did the approaches with Jackal's encouragement and guidance. He wasn't with me physically, but our texts back and forth were basically the reason why I ended up doing the approaches. I texted him "I swear to God I'm gonna do 2 sets and report to you within the hour". I did the sets, but the motivation didn't come from within. Tomorrow, my goal is to do 2 more approaches with no encouragement from anyone. I need to make this a daily habit. If I make it a daily habit, I will be much more effective when I sarge with you guys.

Jackal is the man. I couldn't ask for a better coach. I met him at Jam House earlier today. He taught me AMOG tactics. We start pushing each other and yelling "God loves you!". He made me punch and kick him 20 times to prepare me if I'm ever attacked.

My AA is gone. It no longer exists. I did around 10 approaches. 7 blowouts. 3 conversations (they all lasted under 5 minutes and resulted in no numbers). The blowouts were a result of bad body language and an apologetic tone of voice. When I started to correct these things, I was able to stop the last 2 sets and actually start a conversation. When I apologize with my tone, they sense it and immediately blow me out. Jackal came in and saved my conversation with a romanian girl. She was about to leave, but she didn't after he came in. He was doing regular kino, which is what I need to work on. He does it very naturally. He later explained to me a technique where you prevent her from leaving by using kino and moving your body in the correct way as well.

After doing the approaches, Jackal and I sat down and talked for a few minutes at Wetherspoon's. There was an aggressive beggar who came very close to us. Jackal demonstrated his amog tactics by not allowing the man to lead the conversation. It was interesting to watch. Then, another man tried to criticize Jackal by saying it is wrong to be abusive, but Jackal didn't allow the man to continue in the criticism. It was a very tense moment. It made me realize how beta I act on a regular basis. Now that I approach without hesitation, I'm starting to learn a lot more from Jackal. He's revealing new things. This is exciting.

In response to the AGGRESSIVE BEGGAR.

My tone was weak, had it been stronger and I used less words it would have been a smaller altercation.

I feel by not doing some more approaches I was not in state to be my best self, so was not better able to deal with the situation. I will now do some verbal amog training before each session.

Some may say that I should have ignored the Agg Beggar. However ignoring someone is a skill set that I already have. By doing nothing I would have learnt nothing. To engage is to learn something new . The more AMOG training u do, the more u learn to calibrate. There is no short cut to experience.

When in teaching mode I invest all my energy in watching the student. I will aim to do at least 20 sets next time. The usual reason for me not approaching sets, is to allow the student to approach the sets instead when there is shortage of girl sets. I will next time at least approach guy sets, so that time is not wasted.

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The Jackal an Introduction.
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The Field Reports.
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The Lay Reports.
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LAST FRIDAY NIGHT SARGING WITH SLICK IN SNOBS - FUN FUN FUN FUN...

Last Friday I went to Snobs with SLICK- the new underdog of the PUA world.
We decided to open sets alternately so that when I get blown out, I can atleast be happy that SLICK is getting blown out too. Overall the whole night was not bad as I tried to open a lot of sets. I used a lot of silly pick up lines to increase my confidence.

1)2 set HB7 and HB6 at the bar:
As I approached, they were moving away,
Me: Hey, How is it going?
At first the chick was kind of moving away but when she heard me, she said "OK" in a positive manner and moved away.
Club game needs more aggressive kino and approaching.

2) 2 set Austraians HB6.5 and HB7 : Opened the HB6.5 by touching her shoulder.
Me: Hey How is it going ?
She : Good.
Me: Do you want to come back to my place later ?
She :No.
Me: What is your name?
She : XXXXX
Me: Where are you from ?
She : Austria
Me: What is your zodiac sign ?
She : Leo.
Me: Cool.
HB7 (other girl): Sorry we got to go dancing.
Me: I will probably join u in the dance floor later.
She : Ok.

Later I saw them when I was leaving the club. I talked to her for a bit and asked for her number. She was from Vienna and was only for a couple of weeks(maybe IOI). I used a couple of pick up lines just to make the convo funny.
Me: Do you have 70 pence ?
She :No.
Me : How about 69 ? You can offer me a 69.
She : Very funny. (sarcastically).
Me: I wonder what our kids would look like.
She turned away after I said this.

LESSON : Dont talk bullshit. Just go for compliance. Escalate Kino. F close. Always be closing.
Now I realize - ALWAYS KINO ESCALATE. DO compliance tests. No point standing there and talking deep and meaningful things for an hour. That shit should be done after u have had an Fclose.

3) BAD PICK UP LINE ON HB8 : She had Humongous boobs, but clothes were not very sexy and was taller than me.
I got eye contact from her. She was standing there watching her friend talking on the phone.
I went up to her.
Me: I just wanted to say that you are looking very beautiful.
She : Thanks (fake smile).
Me : Why is it that when I see you my pants get tighter ? ( the delivery was not very confident).
She walked away from me after this.
I laughed to myself after this and my confidence grew after this one. I consider this as a good warm up set.
LESSON : Openers don't count. Girls usually are friendly at the first instance when you open. Open and soon go into escalation.

4) MARRIED HB6 : Near the dance floor, a MILF was watching people dance all alone. I went up to her.
Me: Hey, how is it going ?
She : Good.
Me: Are you here with someone ?
She showed me her wedding ring.
I ejected.
Not sure if this is a good thing to ask - "are u here with someone ?" I got this line from a PUA's article on a forum who was into club game.


5) FAT HB5 : I opened a fat HB5.
Me: Hey! How is it going ?
She : Good.
Me : Do you want to come back to my place later ?
She : No. I have a boyfriend.
Me : Cool. What is your zodiac sign ?
She : Capricorn.
Me: What is your boyfriend's zodiac sign ?
She : XXXXXXXX.
Me : Thats really good. You two are made for each other. Nice to meet you see you later.


6) HB7 at the Bar : She was a bit tall,chubby and intimidating. I touched her on the shoulder.
Me : Hey how is it going ?
She : Good.
I saw some guy next to her was talking to her for a second. I thought it was her boyfriend and ejected. But later after 30 minutes she was snogging another guy.
Lesson : Don't eject unless she tells you to.

7) HB 7 texting on the phone didn't give a shit :
Me: "Hey how is it going?"
She : Good.
Me: Do you want to come back to my place later ?
She : No.
Me: What's your name ?
She walks away still texting on her phone.

Depressed HB6 sitting on the couch : Sat next to her with my arm around her shoulder.
Me : Hey how is it going ?
She: Good.
Me: Do you want to come back to my place later ?
She : No.
Me : Whats your zodiac sign ?
She : I am not interested. ( in a very pissed off way)
Me : Do you have 70 pence ?
She : No.
Me : How about a 69 ?
And I ejected.

LESSON : Depressed women are hard to sarge. If you cannot elevate their mood, they are just gonna be like zombies. Maybe I could have just gone for a hug or a kiss close. Yes.

LAST SATURDAY WITH JACKAL, VOLCANO AND SLICK

At first we did street sets.

2 set HB6 blonde and HB4 on Broad Street

I opened a two set on broad street.
Me : Hi. Stop there for a minute. I just wanted to say that you look really beautiful.
Her: Thanks.
mE : My name is XXX. What is your name ?
She : Sorry we are in a hurry.
They walked away.
Lesson : Unless you shock them or make them crack up with laughter and bring them to your reality, street sets will always be in a hurry.

One set at paradise forum
I said "Hey stop there for a minute."
She "Sorry Sorry I got to go" and didnt even stop.
LESSON : Confidence is important while approaching.

SNOBS WITH SLICK AND VOLCANO

Later we went to SNOBS.

1)2 set HB7 and HB7 : Went up to the set and said
Me: You two are so gorgeous that I think I have fallen in love with both of you.
Her : Oh thanks so much. I am married and she has a boyfriend who is coming down the stairs right now.
Me : Alright. See you.
Ejected.

2) Chubby brunette HB7 at the bar :
I put my hand on her shoulder and said "Can I lay you?".
She : No.
I didnt say anything after that. Just stood there like an idiot.
Later ejected.

3) HB8 PICK UP LINE : She was a gorgeous brunette.

Me : You are so hot that I want to drink your bath water.
She : Thats gross. Thank you.
Me: So I am .... whats your name ?
She: My boyfriend is coming down the stairs. Please go away now..now.
I ejected. She was not lying. Saw her boyfriend with her later.

LESSON : I didnt open many sets this day because I could not manage to make a deal with SLICK to open sets alternately. He was clinging to VOLCANO who was not opening any sets at all as he has club AA and was using that as an excuse not to open sets. Obviously I was depending on SLICK to open sets now which is not good for me.

\\\\Friday 3rd March\\\\

Met up with Yes Man before hand for a drink and discuss the nights antics. Talked during the week, but first time I had met up with him to sarge. He had arranged for Jackal to come and coach us to improve our game.

We went and met up with him at the station, at first I was a little hesitant. He rolled up to us with Asda carrier bag while eating an Apple, in a bright green jacket.

After chit chat at a pub around the corner from the station, he started pushing us into action & opening sets. This wasn't really nightgame, it was late but were going after girls coming out the station going home from work etc, didn't see myself doing daygame. Me & Yes Man had quite big AA at first, but we started approaching sets. Jackal would bark commands and orders and we would follow. The sort of approaches we were doing would never have happened if he wasn't there, I would have made excuses not to go after a set but he made sure I did. He critiqued me after each approach and role played to demonstrate how it should be done, while he ordered Yes Man to approach a 2set. After opening 15odd sets between us we moved on closer to town.

Settled outside a couple of bars in the lanes to begin gaming sets walking from bar to bar. Yes Man hit on hb8 walking along, ran game and then ejected. Jackal said get the fucking # - yes man went back to her #closed. Good lad!

We then moved into the Wh1te ra88it where we began to fluff talk with randoms, and build a bit of social proof. Jackel opened a couple of sets and invited us in, then he would eject. Jackal does it with ease, oozed confidence, well spoken, solid body language, quickly disarming any males in the group. He's quick whitted and establishes himself as the cool guy, which girls were loving.

Moved again further into the lanes, opened a 2-3set, which looked lost. They asked for directions, hb7 showed me a few IOI's, they walked off heading towards a club.
Jackal to me
Jackal: Get her number
ME: I have no intention of contacting her (fucking excuse!)
Jackal: Go get her number
ME: I went back to her >>

ME: Yo, I couldn't let you walk out my life
HB: Oh really
ME: Yeh your beatuiful, put your digits in here (she did)
HB: Do you want my name?
ME: Yeah why not (hesitated a little bit, as I realised I messed up)

Ha, I thought after I should of returned with "Well I was just going to refer to you as dollface, but I suppose there is no harm in getting your real name" & maybe should have spoken to her more, but she was in a hurry (another excuse!)

#closed anyway, so some success.

[I soon realised that the day before I had spent a few hours going through canned material and had used the excuse that I didn't have enough material as reason for not going out in the past. What b0ll0cks, I didn't use any canned openers.]


Out on the street, I was working with this structure
ME: I had to stop you, (pause for a few seconds, step back)
HB: Why?
ME: Because I think you are beautiful (touch her on the shoulder)
HB: oh
ME: I had to meet you, whats your name (handshake important, sexual eye contact)

and so on.

This I found worked wonders for confidence, before tonight in my mind I imagined been in the bar and going with a canned opinion opener etc.

Seeing Jackal mingle with groups of randoms with indirect and direct approach really opened my eyes to the way it's done.

Conclusion of the night and going forward.

> Approached a lot more than I expected
> No more excuses for not approaching or going out, don't need loads of canned material. Possibly a few lines etc.
> 2-3Pints absolute max. Then onto the softdrinks.
> Confident direct approach works wonders, shake hands, get her name, kino, body language, dominance. You are the fucking shit, & it's their benefit to meet you.




Out again tonight with Jackal, will post again tomorrow.

You're a boring tw@t.

I'm a total newbie at daygame and I got 4 numbers this weekend, with Jackal's help. Two of them I am fixing up dates with now and trying to fit them into my week.

You offer "magic bullets" and your username is 3hourattraction. Nuff said.

You charge, so you are intimidated by a guy who does this for free. Go away.

Full Field Report to follow soon.....