I'm writing this post for all those who are just as frustrated about women as I was. Truth be told, I missed out on a lot of social interactions during my high school years because I was too busy playing video games. I was satisfied with wanking off and when I began to lust for woman during my freshman year of college, I got rejected. I resorted to hiring an escort to take my virginity because all I could think of was sex.

That completely destroyed me, never had I kissed a girl or had a girlfriend up to that point. When you compare that to the norms of today's society, that puts me as socially awkward which only feeds into the mentality that I'm not good enough.

I thank PUA for laying some ground rules into my life. I learned to respect myself, and out of the self-respect, women began to respect me. Earlier this year I had my first kiss and now I'm dating someone. I came into the PUA world hoping to find a relationship and I'm well on my way to getting that and more.

If there's anything I learned from PUA, it's that life is about a chance and gaming woman won't kill you. So take that chance even if you don't feel like you have one, because you never know what might happen next. The world is yours for the taking, you just got to reach for it.

That's my two cents.


Oh, and that not every advice you get on the PUA forum is the right one, sometimes you just got to go with your gut feeling.

glad you found your place,i'm sure some can benefit from this post in some way.

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I completely agree with you, my story is exactly the same, besides the escort part, ive learned so much thanks to pick up, it can truly be a life changing experience.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YKBRG_QgEAM

Most inspirational video I've seen on this topic. It can be an extremely harsh watch, but I stand behind it.

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I hate it when people act like they're doing something great for society and themselves, when really all you're doing is doing the same old routines on different girls to pull girls. Sure it's effective, but don't try treating it anything more than it really is, just a way to get someone attracted to you. All the philosophical tripe people come up with gets on my nerves, I became a PUA to have sex with as many girls as I could because I couldn’t do it the normal way, there's no fairy tale story about that, it’s actually quite depressing, but doesn’t bother me in the slightest.

Well then you, PERSONALLY, are doing it for all the wrong reasons and that's not going to get you where you want to be later in life. Since I started reading into this stuff, I've changed a good bit as a person. My confidence is soaring higher than it ever has been, I've become more sociable, more outgoing, and a better overall guy. Go ahead and have fun focusing on tricking women into sleeping with you. I'm taking the other approach. I'd prefer to better myself so that I can also better those around me and build some solid relationships and friendships as a result.

HUSTLERS OF THE WORLS, THE ONE MARK YOU CAN NEVER BEAT IS THE MARK INSIDE!

This is why I'm a fan of natural game, because it betters you as a person. Those traits that attract girls, a lot of them can be applied to your job. In an interview recruiters don't want awkward, greasy people who please people. From an employers view, people pleasers don't make as much money as they aren't as efficient. Being awkward and dirty just doesn't make the impression you need. And by approaching girls, you're confidence develops and you make more friends, become more likeable and build networks.

PUA, well natural game IMO, is more about life change than game. It's just that life change affects your game.

I spent the ages between 15-18 full time gaming. Got out of it a year ago, so glad I did. I missed on teenage stuff and probably have shitter grades because of it. About a month after being social rather than a gamer I was seeing a girl, life was better. I half regret it, but I'm glad for it. If it wasn't for it I wouldn't have came across personal development and my pick up if I didn't play on the computer and was social would probably be no different. It only got better because I realised I needed a life and stumbled across PUA...all thanks to gaming.

So if you have spent most of your life gaming, there are silver linings if you look for it. But if you're out of gaming, stay out forever. It's the better thing. And just because you were socially awkward, doesn't mean you can't change it. I did.

Confidence can be developed, it isn't purely a trait you're born with like your hair colour.

Cool link. Video games can be a big time sink. But so can all those activities you replace it with if they're not leading you anywhere. Even if you get good at pick-up. I doesn't mean you can't waste your life away with finite relationships and meaningless sex.

The social connection aspect is key.

Is this video is extremely harsh to someone, that someone should start worrying about himself I mean seriously, how soft can anyone be

It all depends on what your goals are. Sure we all want to attract beautiful women, but you can do so much more that.
There shouldn't be anything depressing about pick up, if you can't natural do something good, you learn how to.

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Makes me glad I've started this in my last year of high school, and found a lot of success. I'll be ready for college next year.