has anyone felt this way too?

alright, i've hooked up with a shitload of girls (as in going to parties etc, making out - i actually hooked up with 3 different chicks this past week). Basically, I know how to get chicks. BUT, i tend not to try escalating it any further after the kiss.

Trust me I am not gay. haha, I always think to myself like "damn that girl is hot i'd fuck thaat". But when the time comes and I have a girl on me making out and shit, I just don't take it to the next level.

I think i'm subconsciously thinking "i don't want to lose my virginity to THIS girl.." . whereas most people would probably not give a fuck and do it. These girls i've been getting with are about HB 8's. maybe it's because my standard is a little high for having sex? or I don't want to get the girl attached? I really don't know; all I know is that I start thinking too much.

Of course I would love to have sex with a hot ass girl but when I'm on the spot and a few steps away from being able to have sex, I decide not to do anything.

what do you guys think is going on?

It's probably a combination of several things. Losing your virginity is mentally a pretty big deal for most people, so that's one point. To go along with that, you probably want someone who you're in a relationship with so it's "special". Hate to sound corny, but that really does make a huge difference for your first time. I see no point in rushing yourself. Do what you're comfortable with and go at your own pace. You have nothing to prove to anyone.

In my opinion it is also something nice to be that, but!!!

What do you expect of your first lay? And how old are ya?

im 19 and uhh.. to be honest if I picture myself having sex (most probable way right now) its taking a girl to my crib after the club hahah cause i'm living off on my own with friends right now for college.